Dr. Julie Schwartz Gottman
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Jordan.
Jordan.
What you're doing is saying, Conan, you're wrong. I'm right. And it becomes a win lose thing. he has to lose, you get to win. Is that fulfilling to you? Does that bring you emotionally closer to him?
What you're doing is saying, Conan, you're wrong. I'm right. And it becomes a win lose thing. he has to lose, you get to win. Is that fulfilling to you? Does that bring you emotionally closer to him?
What you're doing is saying, Conan, you're wrong. I'm right. And it becomes a win lose thing. he has to lose, you get to win. Is that fulfilling to you? Does that bring you emotionally closer to him?
But that's not how he thinks about it. It's not a sharing of information.
But that's not how he thinks about it. It's not a sharing of information.
But that's not how he thinks about it. It's not a sharing of information.
Jordan, careful.
Jordan, careful.
Jordan, careful.
Can you actually express empathy for him rather than infantilizing him? Don't infantilize him.
Can you actually express empathy for him rather than infantilizing him? Don't infantilize him.
Can you actually express empathy for him rather than infantilizing him? Don't infantilize him.
You ask for a prediction, you're never going to fire him.
You ask for a prediction, you're never going to fire him.
You ask for a prediction, you're never going to fire him.
And that's because this has been going on for three decades. If you were going to fire him, you would have fired him 25 years ago. I actually think I did, but he just kept showing up.
And that's because this has been going on for three decades. If you were going to fire him, you would have fired him 25 years ago. I actually think I did, but he just kept showing up.
And that's because this has been going on for three decades. If you were going to fire him, you would have fired him 25 years ago. I actually think I did, but he just kept showing up.