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Dr. K

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
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Raj Shamani's Figuring Out
Why Gen Z Feels Like Failures: AI, Loneliness & Dark Side of Success | Dr. K | FO481 Raj Shamani

The reason that psychiatrists have to be sociopathic is I have to be able to sit with someone who's suicidal and hopeless and depressed and not absorb that.

Raj Shamani's Figuring Out
Why Gen Z Feels Like Failures: AI, Loneliness & Dark Side of Success | Dr. K | FO481 Raj Shamani

I have to put up a wall of empathy.

Raj Shamani's Figuring Out
Why Gen Z Feels Like Failures: AI, Loneliness & Dark Side of Success | Dr. K | FO481 Raj Shamani

And I can turn it on and off like a valve.

Raj Shamani's Figuring Out
Why Gen Z Feels Like Failures: AI, Loneliness & Dark Side of Success | Dr. K | FO481 Raj Shamani

So I've trained myself to like be more empathic.

Raj Shamani's Figuring Out
Why Gen Z Feels Like Failures: AI, Loneliness & Dark Side of Success | Dr. K | FO481 Raj Shamani

Having kids was a big part of that.

Raj Shamani's Figuring Out
Why Gen Z Feels Like Failures: AI, Loneliness & Dark Side of Success | Dr. K | FO481 Raj Shamani

So it's not that I'm evil.

Raj Shamani's Figuring Out
Why Gen Z Feels Like Failures: AI, Loneliness & Dark Side of Success | Dr. K | FO481 Raj Shamani

But sociopathy is really common, like a surgeon has to cut into another human being and not feel bad about it.

Raj Shamani's Figuring Out
Why Gen Z Feels Like Failures: AI, Loneliness & Dark Side of Success | Dr. K | FO481 Raj Shamani

Right.

Raj Shamani's Figuring Out
Why Gen Z Feels Like Failures: AI, Loneliness & Dark Side of Success | Dr. K | FO481 Raj Shamani

Which sounds kind of weird, but like makes sense.

Raj Shamani's Figuring Out
Why Gen Z Feels Like Failures: AI, Loneliness & Dark Side of Success | Dr. K | FO481 Raj Shamani

So there are absolutely these kinds of traits where if you kind of think about like.

Raj Shamani's Figuring Out
Why Gen Z Feels Like Failures: AI, Loneliness & Dark Side of Success | Dr. K | FO481 Raj Shamani

You know, like having to fire people, if you can't fire people effectively.

Raj Shamani's Figuring Out
Why Gen Z Feels Like Failures: AI, Loneliness & Dark Side of Success | Dr. K | FO481 Raj Shamani

then it's really hard to run a successful business.

Raj Shamani's Figuring Out
Why Gen Z Feels Like Failures: AI, Loneliness & Dark Side of Success | Dr. K | FO481 Raj Shamani

So being able to fire someone, and it's not even that firing someone is like evil.

Raj Shamani's Figuring Out
Why Gen Z Feels Like Failures: AI, Loneliness & Dark Side of Success | Dr. K | FO481 Raj Shamani

People may perceive it that way, especially if they're the ones getting fired.

Raj Shamani's Figuring Out
Why Gen Z Feels Like Failures: AI, Loneliness & Dark Side of Success | Dr. K | FO481 Raj Shamani

It's a necessity for a successful business, right?

Raj Shamani's Figuring Out
Why Gen Z Feels Like Failures: AI, Loneliness & Dark Side of Success | Dr. K | FO481 Raj Shamani

And so there are a lot of those traits that I think we see that lead to success.

Raj Shamani's Figuring Out
Why Gen Z Feels Like Failures: AI, Loneliness & Dark Side of Success | Dr. K | FO481 Raj Shamani

And this is also where you have to be broken in the right way.

Raj Shamani's Figuring Out
Why Gen Z Feels Like Failures: AI, Loneliness & Dark Side of Success | Dr. K | FO481 Raj Shamani

There are some very narcissistic people who are very, very successful.

Raj Shamani's Figuring Out
Why Gen Z Feels Like Failures: AI, Loneliness & Dark Side of Success | Dr. K | FO481 Raj Shamani

I think the tricky thing is that even though you can take this subset of people who are really successful and they test highly in, let's say, narcissism or sociopathy, this is where we got to be careful.

Raj Shamani's Figuring Out
Why Gen Z Feels Like Failures: AI, Loneliness & Dark Side of Success | Dr. K | FO481 Raj Shamani

There's another question you can ask, and this is a bit technical, but