Dr. K

Nice is on the outside.

So this is why a lot of people think nice guys finish last.

They do sort of finish last.

And the reason for that is because they're not actually kind.

And women detect it.

They pretend to be kind.

That's what nice is.

And then eventually what happens is you get your, you know, your.

So, I mean, I work with a lot of young men.

And so I know this is a tangent, but, you know, like some young men will try to be really nice because they like a girl and they'll do a lot of nice stuff for her.

And then she thinks that we're friends and then they get really upset because.

when she won't engage with them physically.

Like I do all this stuff for you, why don't you do this for me?

So in their mind, they're keeping this tally of like what you owe me and at some point picking you up from the airport like six times and like helping you deal with this breakup, at some point that entitles me to a physical relationship.

That's nice, it's not kind, right?

So going back to the CEO thing,

So I think that there are some situations where absolutely you can make an argument that sociopathy and narcissism will help people become successful.

But that doesn't mean that the average sociopath or narcissist is doing well.

Does that kind of make sense?

There's a very important distinction there.