Dr. K
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So there's a lot of data that shows that the more cognitively flexible you are around your identity, the better off you will be.
And I don't know if this kind of makes sense.
I know it sounds weird, and I know it runs kind of contrary to some of the stuff that you may say, but I think you do this, right?
I think you must in order to achieve what you've achieved.
You must consider your weak parts.
You must acknowledge.
100%.
Yeah, yeah.
Right?
That if I do not act in the right way, my baser nature will take control.
Yeah, of course.
There is an addict, a degenerate gamer who lives inside of me.
And if I'm not careful, that will come out again.
Absolutely.
So here's, if you think you're a winner, it starts to become other people's fault.
Then you're right that there's a tension because now if you think of yourself as a winner and you get data that you're not winning, now your identity is threatened.
So I think it's beautiful because people are probably asking, how do I get from loser to winner to beyond?
And I would even argue that you are doing what I'm saying.
Yeah.
And people can even rewind this and pay attention to the subject of your sentences.