Dr. K

So one of my clients came to me and asked me, Dr. K, I don't know why I only attract boys.

And we talked about it for a little bit and we realized you attract everybody.

You choose.

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Lots of great people come up to you, but you're not attracted to them.

And this is what's so cool.

Like people don't realize when they're suffering in life and life feels hard.

I mean, I've worked with people who have had polysubstance addictions from the age of nine.

And then you live this way for 19 years and you think there's no way you can get better.

You're at the age of 28.

You've been struggling with substances for 19 years.

Relatively young, but your whole experience has been struggling with this.

And you think it's impossible, but you just don't understand yourself.

You don't understand how you are responding to your impulses.

You don't understand why you're using these substances, that you're trying to run away from something that is inside you.

And you can try to control your behaviors as much as you want.

But as long as that black flame, that like tar is inside you, no way that you're going to control your behavior.

So understand yourself first.

It's not for me to say you should do this or don't do this.

I can teach you how.