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Dr. Lindsay Gibson

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601 total appearances

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All In The Mind
Handling emotionally immature parents, raising emotionally mature kids

I mean, she was probably maybe two and a half.

All In The Mind
Handling emotionally immature parents, raising emotionally mature kids

She was really, she was really little.

All In The Mind
Handling emotionally immature parents, raising emotionally mature kids

And she came up to her father and shook her finger in his face and said, don't you ever do that to me again?

All In The Mind
Handling emotionally immature parents, raising emotionally mature kids

And he started laughing and she put her hands on her hips.

All In The Mind
Handling emotionally immature parents, raising emotionally mature kids

And sort of stared him down.

All In The Mind
Handling emotionally immature parents, raising emotionally mature kids

And then she flounced off and turned around again and shook her finger at him again and said, don't you forget that blah, blah.

All In The Mind
Handling emotionally immature parents, raising emotionally mature kids

And he was rolling on the floor in laughter.

All In The Mind
Handling emotionally immature parents, raising emotionally mature kids

Okay.

All In The Mind
Handling emotionally immature parents, raising emotionally mature kids

So...

All In The Mind
Handling emotionally immature parents, raising emotionally mature kids

When I watched that, I thought, oh my goodness, he is teaching her that this is getting positive responses from him.

All In The Mind
Handling emotionally immature parents, raising emotionally mature kids

Another example is there was a thing, I don't know if it's still a thing on social media, I hope it's died an early death, but people would tell their child some kind of bad news or tell them they were in this big trouble and they couldn't go to the

All In The Mind
Handling emotionally immature parents, raising emotionally mature kids

know yeah ball game or whatever and the child just like dissolve in tears and they'd be so upset and they'd be you know distraught and then they'd say oh just kidding yes we're really going and it was like you just psychologically tortured your child that stuff is so unbelievable to me that people would do that and then record it and put it on the internet i i completely agree

All In The Mind
Handling emotionally immature parents, raising emotionally mature kids

Yes, yes.

All In The Mind
Handling emotionally immature parents, raising emotionally mature kids

Another one was, you know, those animatronic plants that, you know, the plant sits there and then you, I don't know if it's remote or whatever, but you...

All In The Mind
Handling emotionally immature parents, raising emotionally mature kids

the plant will suddenly start moving, and they'll put that in front of a baby, and the baby looks at it, and the plant moves, and the baby bursts into tears.

All In The Mind
Handling emotionally immature parents, raising emotionally mature kids

It's very reliable.

All In The Mind
Handling emotionally immature parents, raising emotionally mature kids

It happens every shot that they show of that.

All In The Mind
Handling emotionally immature parents, raising emotionally mature kids

And that's because that baby is working on its model of reality, what it knows about reality.

All In The Mind
Handling emotionally immature parents, raising emotionally mature kids

And you've just tricked it and said, huh, you know, reality is plants can move by themselves.

All In The Mind
Handling emotionally immature parents, raising emotionally mature kids

And the baby goes, whoa, no, you know, and they fall apart because their model of reality is so fragile at that point.