Dr. Mary Claire Haver

Dr. Stryker breaks down the problem with pellets,

explains the orgasm gap between men and women and why it narrows with age, and walks us through her actual clinical approach when a patient comes in struggling with orgasm.

We also talk about how to find a sexual medicine expert, why pain must be addressed first, and what gives her hope for the future of this field.

If you missed part one, I encourage you to go back and listen.

But if you're ready to learn what actually is possible when it comes to sexual function in midlife and beyond, let's continue the conversation.

Talk to me about vibrators, devices.

You touched on them earlier, but why does vibration work so well?

Yes.

Yes.

So has anyone done a head-to-head comparison of different vibrators?

Because there's, you know, I guess I lump them into only on the outside or optional, you know, penetration.

And so people feel very strongly about what kind of vibrator they should have.

And now there's the ones with the little suction cup.

The suction, which is a whole different thing.

The suction is different.

Okay, because I have these conversations with my girlfriends and...

It's all very different.

Most of them feel like the least complicated, the better.

Like all these extra buttons and whistles and heat.

And then you have to go back through the cycles to get to the one you want.