Dr. Nayan Patel
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There's trash everywhere.
You go to the kitchen, the stove is completely filthy.
Look at the dishes, it's not been done yet.
Your counter is all messy.
So, oh my God, let me go to my bedroom.
You go back to the bed, it's not made yet.
There are clothes everywhere.
The laundry hasn't been done yet.
The bathroom is dirty.
And he goes, my God, where do I begin?
And then about the time the kids comes out, I say, hey, Dad, can you make some dinner for us?
Well, I would love to make dinner for you, but who's going to clear this mess first?
So what you do is you do bare minimum, clean the stove, do some dishes and make some dinner.
And then you serve the dinner and then you tell what you do after that.
Are you now, let's do some homework with the kids or do other things?
No.
I said, you do what you have to do.
I'm going to clear this mess first.
Right.
You, what you do, based on what you do, you're being effective by cleaning your own house.