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Dr. Paul Conti

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Know Thyself
E193 - Dr. Paul Conti: A Psychiatrist's Guide to Understanding Your Mind

So therefore, I'm more likely by applying myself more to get better results.

Know Thyself
E193 - Dr. Paul Conti: A Psychiatrist's Guide to Understanding Your Mind

But again, if I decide, no, I'm just going to apply myself 24-7, right?

Know Thyself
E193 - Dr. Paul Conti: A Psychiatrist's Guide to Understanding Your Mind

Now I'm neglecting my health.

Know Thyself
E193 - Dr. Paul Conti: A Psychiatrist's Guide to Understanding Your Mind

I'm

Know Thyself
E193 - Dr. Paul Conti: A Psychiatrist's Guide to Understanding Your Mind

So there's an optimal range.

Know Thyself
E193 - Dr. Paul Conti: A Psychiatrist's Guide to Understanding Your Mind

And when we're in that range, we're healthily asserting ourselves.

Know Thyself
E193 - Dr. Paul Conti: A Psychiatrist's Guide to Understanding Your Mind

We're strongly asserting ourselves.

Know Thyself
E193 - Dr. Paul Conti: A Psychiatrist's Guide to Understanding Your Mind

It's not too much, but we're doing justice by ourselves.

Know Thyself
E193 - Dr. Paul Conti: A Psychiatrist's Guide to Understanding Your Mind

It's not too little.

Know Thyself
E193 - Dr. Paul Conti: A Psychiatrist's Guide to Understanding Your Mind

So maybe some of what I have to give, I leave on the table, right?

Know Thyself
E193 - Dr. Paul Conti: A Psychiatrist's Guide to Understanding Your Mind

It's not too little.

Know Thyself
E193 - Dr. Paul Conti: A Psychiatrist's Guide to Understanding Your Mind

It's not too much.

Know Thyself
E193 - Dr. Paul Conti: A Psychiatrist's Guide to Understanding Your Mind

Then we're in a healthy range where we're being active in the world around us.

Know Thyself
E193 - Dr. Paul Conti: A Psychiatrist's Guide to Understanding Your Mind

And instead of being passive in like the kind of world happening to us or life happening to us, we're on the front foot and we're guiding life forward.

Know Thyself
E193 - Dr. Paul Conti: A Psychiatrist's Guide to Understanding Your Mind

And the same thing is true with the pleasure drive where we want to get happiness and gratification from the things that we do.

Know Thyself
E193 - Dr. Paul Conti: A Psychiatrist's Guide to Understanding Your Mind

So if I work hard, I want to be able to feel good about that.

Know Thyself
E193 - Dr. Paul Conti: A Psychiatrist's Guide to Understanding Your Mind

I want to be able to get good feedback and maybe I'm rewarded with a raise, right?

Know Thyself
E193 - Dr. Paul Conti: A Psychiatrist's Guide to Understanding Your Mind

I want to feel good.

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E193 - Dr. Paul Conti: A Psychiatrist's Guide to Understanding Your Mind

I want good things to come back to me.

Know Thyself
E193 - Dr. Paul Conti: A Psychiatrist's Guide to Understanding Your Mind

If I crave too much of that, then I might get covetous.