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Dr. Ramani Durvasula

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The Tamsen Show
The Narcissist Decoder: How Midlife Women Get Trapped in Emotional Abuse

Ich denke, jeder fühlt sich so, als müsse er sein. Ich sage immer, es ist das Cool-Girl-Phänomen. Ich muss nur cool sein. Nein, du nicht! Be mad! This is why we have dartboards that you could put people's faces on. And so it's a be mad. That's a human emotion. And lean into the anger because like all emotions, they're like clouds going by in the sky.

The Tamsen Show
The Narcissist Decoder: How Midlife Women Get Trapped in Emotional Abuse

Ich denke, jeder fühlt sich so, als müsse er sein. Ich sage immer, es ist das Cool-Girl-Phänomen. Ich muss nur cool sein. Nein, du nicht! Be mad! This is why we have dartboards that you could put people's faces on. And so it's a be mad. That's a human emotion. And lean into the anger because like all emotions, they're like clouds going by in the sky.

The Tamsen Show
The Narcissist Decoder: How Midlife Women Get Trapped in Emotional Abuse

Ich denke, jeder fühlt sich so, als müsse er sein. Ich sage immer, es ist das Cool-Girl-Phänomen. Ich muss nur cool sein. Nein, du nicht! Be mad! This is why we have dartboards that you could put people's faces on. And so it's a be mad. That's a human emotion. And lean into the anger because like all emotions, they're like clouds going by in the sky.

The Tamsen Show
The Narcissist Decoder: How Midlife Women Get Trapped in Emotional Abuse

A new one will come along and sometimes that anger turns into laughter. Whatever that is. My favorite is somebody once made a cake with a photo of the Ex-Partner. Aber weißt du, was du tun musst? Du musst es in die Küche schneiden, dann kannst du es essen. Da gibt es all diese Metaphoren. Also, find whatever way, be angry first, because it's the anger of grief.

The Tamsen Show
The Narcissist Decoder: How Midlife Women Get Trapped in Emotional Abuse

A new one will come along and sometimes that anger turns into laughter. Whatever that is. My favorite is somebody once made a cake with a photo of the Ex-Partner. Aber weißt du, was du tun musst? Du musst es in die Küche schneiden, dann kannst du es essen. Da gibt es all diese Metaphoren. Also, find whatever way, be angry first, because it's the anger of grief.

The Tamsen Show
The Narcissist Decoder: How Midlife Women Get Trapped in Emotional Abuse

A new one will come along and sometimes that anger turns into laughter. Whatever that is. My favorite is somebody once made a cake with a photo of the Ex-Partner. Aber weißt du, was du tun musst? Du musst es in die Küche schneiden, dann kannst du es essen. Da gibt es all diese Metaphoren. Also, find whatever way, be angry first, because it's the anger of grief.

The Tamsen Show
The Narcissist Decoder: How Midlife Women Get Trapped in Emotional Abuse

And that sense of being replaced, which is such a cultural trope, that now this young person has come along and da-da-da-da-da-da, or whatever this person is. I mean, every movie is made of it. Because it speaks to how universal a fear it is. This new person is having the same relationship as you, but they may be consuming it differently.

The Tamsen Show
The Narcissist Decoder: How Midlife Women Get Trapped in Emotional Abuse

And that sense of being replaced, which is such a cultural trope, that now this young person has come along and da-da-da-da-da-da, or whatever this person is. I mean, every movie is made of it. Because it speaks to how universal a fear it is. This new person is having the same relationship as you, but they may be consuming it differently.

The Tamsen Show
The Narcissist Decoder: How Midlife Women Get Trapped in Emotional Abuse

And that sense of being replaced, which is such a cultural trope, that now this young person has come along and da-da-da-da-da-da, or whatever this person is. I mean, every movie is made of it. Because it speaks to how universal a fear it is. This new person is having the same relationship as you, but they may be consuming it differently.

The Tamsen Show
The Narcissist Decoder: How Midlife Women Get Trapped in Emotional Abuse

It could very well be that your ex-partner has money, and that's very interesting to this new person, and you know what the psychology of this person is. That's still going to show up there. That transaction works for the new person. It didn't work for you.

The Tamsen Show
The Narcissist Decoder: How Midlife Women Get Trapped in Emotional Abuse

It could very well be that your ex-partner has money, and that's very interesting to this new person, and you know what the psychology of this person is. That's still going to show up there. That transaction works for the new person. It didn't work for you.

The Tamsen Show
The Narcissist Decoder: How Midlife Women Get Trapped in Emotional Abuse

It could very well be that your ex-partner has money, and that's very interesting to this new person, and you know what the psychology of this person is. That's still going to show up there. That transaction works for the new person. It didn't work for you.

The Tamsen Show
The Narcissist Decoder: How Midlife Women Get Trapped in Emotional Abuse

Ich muss ein Therapeut sein und weise Dinge sagen. Ich würde nicht sagen, dass es immer ein schlechtes Ding ist. Du solltest besser, besser, besser Recherche mit diesem Paartherapeuten machen. Denn es gibt viel zu viele Paartherapeuten oder Menschen, die Modelle der Paartherapie nutzen, die einfach nicht funktionieren, wenn es einen narzisstischen Partner in der Raum gibt.

The Tamsen Show
The Narcissist Decoder: How Midlife Women Get Trapped in Emotional Abuse

Ich muss ein Therapeut sein und weise Dinge sagen. Ich würde nicht sagen, dass es immer ein schlechtes Ding ist. Du solltest besser, besser, besser Recherche mit diesem Paartherapeuten machen. Denn es gibt viel zu viele Paartherapeuten oder Menschen, die Modelle der Paartherapie nutzen, die einfach nicht funktionieren, wenn es einen narzisstischen Partner in der Raum gibt.

The Tamsen Show
The Narcissist Decoder: How Midlife Women Get Trapped in Emotional Abuse

Ich muss ein Therapeut sein und weise Dinge sagen. Ich würde nicht sagen, dass es immer ein schlechtes Ding ist. Du solltest besser, besser, besser Recherche mit diesem Paartherapeuten machen. Denn es gibt viel zu viele Paartherapeuten oder Menschen, die Modelle der Paartherapie nutzen, die einfach nicht funktionieren, wenn es einen narzisstischen Partner in der Raum gibt.

The Tamsen Show
The Narcissist Decoder: How Midlife Women Get Trapped in Emotional Abuse

Und Tamsin, der Grund, warum ich denke, dass mich das so wütend macht, ist, dass in den letzten 20 Jahren Die Anzahl von Kunden, die, ehrlich gesagt, fast traumatisiert waren, weil sie Monate, sogar Jahre von Paartherapie verbracht haben, in denen sie verurteilt wurden, Show gratitude, have date nights, communicate. Let's see what your role is in this.

The Tamsen Show
The Narcissist Decoder: How Midlife Women Get Trapped in Emotional Abuse

Und Tamsin, der Grund, warum ich denke, dass mich das so wütend macht, ist, dass in den letzten 20 Jahren Die Anzahl von Kunden, die, ehrlich gesagt, fast traumatisiert waren, weil sie Monate, sogar Jahre von Paartherapie verbracht haben, in denen sie verurteilt wurden, Show gratitude, have date nights, communicate. Let's see what your role is in this.

The Tamsen Show
The Narcissist Decoder: How Midlife Women Get Trapped in Emotional Abuse

Und Tamsin, der Grund, warum ich denke, dass mich das so wütend macht, ist, dass in den letzten 20 Jahren Die Anzahl von Kunden, die, ehrlich gesagt, fast traumatisiert waren, weil sie Monate, sogar Jahre von Paartherapie verbracht haben, in denen sie verurteilt wurden, Show gratitude, have date nights, communicate. Let's see what your role is in this.

The Tamsen Show
The Narcissist Decoder: How Midlife Women Get Trapped in Emotional Abuse

I felt like I was deprogramming them from a cult. Because that may apply when you have two not narcissistic people in a relationship. Listen, relationships need tune-ups.

The Tamsen Show
The Narcissist Decoder: How Midlife Women Get Trapped in Emotional Abuse

I felt like I was deprogramming them from a cult. Because that may apply when you have two not narcissistic people in a relationship. Listen, relationships need tune-ups.