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Dr. Shadé Zahrai

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On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Confidence Expert Dr. Shadé Zahrai: Feel Like You’re Not Enough? THIS Proven 4 Part Framework Will Transform Your Self-Image & Build REAL Confidence

So just my way of recap, we've just covered acceptance for everyone listening.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Confidence Expert Dr. Shadé Zahrai: Feel Like You’re Not Enough? THIS Proven 4 Part Framework Will Transform Your Self-Image & Build REAL Confidence

And acceptance is essentially when your self-esteem is shaky, you seek validation, you...

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Confidence Expert Dr. Shadé Zahrai: Feel Like You’re Not Enough? THIS Proven 4 Part Framework Will Transform Your Self-Image & Build REAL Confidence

feel like you need to prove your worth, your sense of identity is attached to what you're producing or performing or achieving.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Confidence Expert Dr. Shadé Zahrai: Feel Like You’re Not Enough? THIS Proven 4 Part Framework Will Transform Your Self-Image & Build REAL Confidence

The next way that self-doubt can show up is not to do with the I'm not enough or I'm not worthy and entirely to do with the can I actually do this thing?

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Confidence Expert Dr. Shadé Zahrai: Feel Like You’re Not Enough? THIS Proven 4 Part Framework Will Transform Your Self-Image & Build REAL Confidence

Do I have the skills and the ability to do it?

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Confidence Expert Dr. Shadé Zahrai: Feel Like You’re Not Enough? THIS Proven 4 Part Framework Will Transform Your Self-Image & Build REAL Confidence

And what we see here is a lot of people will fall into imposter syndrome.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Confidence Expert Dr. Shadé Zahrai: Feel Like You’re Not Enough? THIS Proven 4 Part Framework Will Transform Your Self-Image & Build REAL Confidence

Imposter syndrome actually doesn't exist in the literature and the research as the term imposter syndrome.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Confidence Expert Dr. Shadé Zahrai: Feel Like You’re Not Enough? THIS Proven 4 Part Framework Will Transform Your Self-Image & Build REAL Confidence

It's called imposter phenomenon.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Confidence Expert Dr. Shadé Zahrai: Feel Like You’re Not Enough? THIS Proven 4 Part Framework Will Transform Your Self-Image & Build REAL Confidence

Now, just notice the difference between a syndrome and a phenomenon.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Confidence Expert Dr. Shadé Zahrai: Feel Like You’re Not Enough? THIS Proven 4 Part Framework Will Transform Your Self-Image & Build REAL Confidence

One of them is a behavioral phenomenon that was observed among a group of people.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Confidence Expert Dr. Shadé Zahrai: Feel Like You’re Not Enough? THIS Proven 4 Part Framework Will Transform Your Self-Image & Build REAL Confidence

The other one pathologizes it and makes it seem like there's something wrong with us.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Confidence Expert Dr. Shadé Zahrai: Feel Like You’re Not Enough? THIS Proven 4 Part Framework Will Transform Your Self-Image & Build REAL Confidence

So imposter syndrome was initially discovered in the 1970s.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Confidence Expert Dr. Shadé Zahrai: Feel Like You’re Not Enough? THIS Proven 4 Part Framework Will Transform Your Self-Image & Build REAL Confidence

where they were specifically looking at women.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Confidence Expert Dr. Shadé Zahrai: Feel Like You’re Not Enough? THIS Proven 4 Part Framework Will Transform Your Self-Image & Build REAL Confidence

So this was high achieving women, women who had just entered the workforce, women who had PhDs and a strong track record behind them.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Confidence Expert Dr. Shadé Zahrai: Feel Like You’re Not Enough? THIS Proven 4 Part Framework Will Transform Your Self-Image & Build REAL Confidence

And they felt like they didn't belong.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Confidence Expert Dr. Shadé Zahrai: Feel Like You’re Not Enough? THIS Proven 4 Part Framework Will Transform Your Self-Image & Build REAL Confidence

They felt like they were frauds.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Confidence Expert Dr. Shadé Zahrai: Feel Like You’re Not Enough? THIS Proven 4 Part Framework Will Transform Your Self-Image & Build REAL Confidence

They felt that they were undeserving of their success.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Confidence Expert Dr. Shadé Zahrai: Feel Like You’re Not Enough? THIS Proven 4 Part Framework Will Transform Your Self-Image & Build REAL Confidence

They felt that everyone else thought that they were smarter or more capable than they really were.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Confidence Expert Dr. Shadé Zahrai: Feel Like You’re Not Enough? THIS Proven 4 Part Framework Will Transform Your Self-Image & Build REAL Confidence

So there's two elements for the imposter phenomenon.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Confidence Expert Dr. Shadé Zahrai: Feel Like You’re Not Enough? THIS Proven 4 Part Framework Will Transform Your Self-Image & Build REAL Confidence

We'll move away from syndrome, imposter phenomenon.