Dr. Sue Morter

unresolved emotion unresolved emotion so what does that look like you had an experience you don't know what to do with it you had a reaction to it you didn't know what to do with that so you just suppressed it and went on because we're taught to be you know broad shoulders be tough go go get them and if we're capable i mean i was a capable kid so i could broad shoulders i can go make it happen i can handle it and how that person hurt me i'm just going to keep yeah that person lied to me that's not going to get in my way all right nothing's stopping me all right interesting and then all of a sudden i ended up with migraine headaches so i couldn't go back

The number one, it was kind of a collection of emotions.

It was truly an acceptance of self, of who I am.

I didn't accept myself.

All kinds of things.

I just inherently had an idea that I was supposed to be different than I was.

Why?

I don't know.

My mother was the valedictorian of her class.

My father was the salutatorian of the same class.

They were brilliant people.

And so I was raised in this environment where everything was known.

And so if I felt something different than what was going on in the immediate environment, something had to be wrong.

And it wasn't going to be them because they were brilliant.

They were award-winning brilliance.

And so it had to be me.

So we either blame the outside or we

Or we shut down on the inside.

It happens.

Oh my gosh.