Dr. Todd Rose

And I said, you know, grandma, I just want to tell you all those times sleeping over.

She's like, barely can get a word out.

And she says, she touches my arm.

She says, I know, I know what mattered most to you.

It was going to Sizzler.

And I was like, wait, what?

And I didn't have the heart to be like, I didn't like that at all, right?

But she said, just to be honest, your grandpa and I didn't really like going to Sizzler, but we knew it meant a lot to you.

So I'm sitting there thinking, wait, we all ended up going to Sizzler once a month for six years because we all thought we all wanted to go to Sizzler when nobody actually did.

Again, I'd have the heart to tell her on her deathbed that she could have me for a bologna sandwich.

But that kind of like, nobody was manipulating anyone.

We care about each other.

We want each other to be happy and we can misread each other.

And then just like the drink example, nobody wants to question it and we just keep doing it.

I promise you, one favor is just...

go to your family or your significant other and think about the things you do on a routine basis.

I have friends that have every Friday, we have salmon night.

Yep.

And we watch a movie.

Maybe everybody wants to do that.