Dr. Tracy Vaillancourt

But there's some cues that are being picked up by others that may still be there, that may still be present in adulthood.

But there's some cues that are being picked up by others that may still be there, that may still be present in adulthood.

And the single is hard because it reeks of victim blaming, right? And yet it's not what the intention is. In the ideal world, like, so a lot of times what we do when kids are really bullied, we change them schools. In the past, they were put into programs, social skills training programs. So it was all about the deficits of the victim instead of thinking about

And the single is hard because it reeks of victim blaming, right? And yet it's not what the intention is. In the ideal world, like, so a lot of times what we do when kids are really bullied, we change them schools. In the past, they were put into programs, social skills training programs. So it was all about the deficits of the victim instead of thinking about

And the single is hard because it reeks of victim blaming, right? And yet it's not what the intention is. In the ideal world, like, so a lot of times what we do when kids are really bullied, we change them schools. In the past, they were put into programs, social skills training programs. So it was all about the deficits of the victim instead of thinking about

their rights and how they should be allowed to exist in this world being the way they are, that really the onus should be on changing the perpetrator's behavior. And so I just need, I think we need to be cautious because, you know, this is a sensitive area. We don't want people to ever think that whatever they did, they deserve their poor treatment.

their rights and how they should be allowed to exist in this world being the way they are, that really the onus should be on changing the perpetrator's behavior. And so I just need, I think we need to be cautious because, you know, this is a sensitive area. We don't want people to ever think that whatever they did, they deserve their poor treatment.

their rights and how they should be allowed to exist in this world being the way they are, that really the onus should be on changing the perpetrator's behavior. And so I just need, I think we need to be cautious because, you know, this is a sensitive area. We don't want people to ever think that whatever they did, they deserve their poor treatment.

But at the same time, there is something that some really terrible people are picking up on. And then it could be a lack of confidence. It could just be like, as I said, there's when I talked about if you were squeaky, you know, you probably would be left alone. But if you're not, you're going to be picked on again. We do know that there's victim shopping, that that exists, that kids do that.

But at the same time, there is something that some really terrible people are picking up on. And then it could be a lack of confidence. It could just be like, as I said, there's when I talked about if you were squeaky, you know, you probably would be left alone. But if you're not, you're going to be picked on again. We do know that there's victim shopping, that that exists, that kids do that.

But at the same time, there is something that some really terrible people are picking up on. And then it could be a lack of confidence. It could just be like, as I said, there's when I talked about if you were squeaky, you know, you probably would be left alone. But if you're not, you're going to be picked on again. We do know that there's victim shopping, that that exists, that kids do that.

Exactly. And so that's not been studied in adults, but I imagine that it probably will be, like, that that will exist, that there is going to be victim shopping.

Exactly. And so that's not been studied in adults, but I imagine that it probably will be, like, that that will exist, that there is going to be victim shopping.

Exactly. And so that's not been studied in adults, but I imagine that it probably will be, like, that that will exist, that there is going to be victim shopping.

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No, you're awesome. No, you're awesome. Honestly, I've missed you forever.

No, you're awesome. No, you're awesome. Honestly, I've missed you forever.

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