Dr. Tristan Engels
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And this is what I meant about those other variables that affect resiliency. If his grandmother was a constant source of nurturance and affection, then taking him away from her and passing him around through different relatives like that really does reduce his ability to gain that resiliency.
And this is what I meant about those other variables that affect resiliency. If his grandmother was a constant source of nurturance and affection, then taking him away from her and passing him around through different relatives like that really does reduce his ability to gain that resiliency.
And this is what I meant about those other variables that affect resiliency. If his grandmother was a constant source of nurturance and affection, then taking him away from her and passing him around through different relatives like that really does reduce his ability to gain that resiliency.
Oh, wow. There's a lot to unpack here. So until this point, Charles has had no real stability or security in his life, starting from a very young age, not to mention the many broken attachments he's had until this point.
Oh, wow. There's a lot to unpack here. So until this point, Charles has had no real stability or security in his life, starting from a very young age, not to mention the many broken attachments he's had until this point.
Oh, wow. There's a lot to unpack here. So until this point, Charles has had no real stability or security in his life, starting from a very young age, not to mention the many broken attachments he's had until this point.
His mother was seemingly grooming him into a career criminal and then once again abandoned him, this time to a reform school, because she could no longer control what she herself had actually helped to create. Now, at this boy's school, he continues to lack any control over his life. And once again, the adults that should be protecting him aren't, and instead are encouraging crimes against him.
His mother was seemingly grooming him into a career criminal and then once again abandoned him, this time to a reform school, because she could no longer control what she herself had actually helped to create. Now, at this boy's school, he continues to lack any control over his life. And once again, the adults that should be protecting him aren't, and instead are encouraging crimes against him.
His mother was seemingly grooming him into a career criminal and then once again abandoned him, this time to a reform school, because she could no longer control what she herself had actually helped to create. Now, at this boy's school, he continues to lack any control over his life. And once again, the adults that should be protecting him aren't, and instead are encouraging crimes against him.
Oh, wow. There's a lot to unpack here. So until this point, Charles has had no real stability or security in his life, starting from a very young age, not to mention the many broken attachments he's had until this point.
Oh, wow. There's a lot to unpack here. So until this point, Charles has had no real stability or security in his life, starting from a very young age, not to mention the many broken attachments he's had until this point.
Oh, wow. There's a lot to unpack here. So until this point, Charles has had no real stability or security in his life, starting from a very young age, not to mention the many broken attachments he's had until this point.
His mother was seemingly grooming him into a career criminal and then once again abandoned him, this time to a reform school, because she could no longer control what she herself had actually helped to create. Now, at this boy's school, he continues to lack any control over his life. And once again, the adults that should be protecting him aren't, and instead are encouraging crimes against him.
His mother was seemingly grooming him into a career criminal and then once again abandoned him, this time to a reform school, because she could no longer control what she herself had actually helped to create. Now, at this boy's school, he continues to lack any control over his life. And once again, the adults that should be protecting him aren't, and instead are encouraging crimes against him.
His mother was seemingly grooming him into a career criminal and then once again abandoned him, this time to a reform school, because she could no longer control what she herself had actually helped to create. Now, at this boy's school, he continues to lack any control over his life. And once again, the adults that should be protecting him aren't, and instead are encouraging crimes against him.
And this, I believe, greatly impacted his ability to empathize with others, or rather his lack of ability to do that, and why he only forms attachments to others if he has something to gain from them. And those attachments will remain superficial. He is learning more versatile ways to be a criminal. And more importantly, this really shapes who he is to become.
And this, I believe, greatly impacted his ability to empathize with others, or rather his lack of ability to do that, and why he only forms attachments to others if he has something to gain from them. And those attachments will remain superficial. He is learning more versatile ways to be a criminal. And more importantly, this really shapes who he is to become.
And this, I believe, greatly impacted his ability to empathize with others, or rather his lack of ability to do that, and why he only forms attachments to others if he has something to gain from them. And those attachments will remain superficial. He is learning more versatile ways to be a criminal. And more importantly, this really shapes who he is to become.
His lack of control is going to be overcompensated by a need to always be in control of everyone and everything around him, which we will definitely be getting into in detail as you take us through his story.
His lack of control is going to be overcompensated by a need to always be in control of everyone and everything around him, which we will definitely be getting into in detail as you take us through his story.