Dr. Victor Carrión
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And in fact, the individuals that are choosing to have a broader belonging in a way, are more protected. I worry about those other individuals, too, that have that very personalized, not personalized, but very individualized, unique component in their life where they dedicate everything to that one thing.
And in fact, the individuals that are choosing to have a broader belonging in a way, are more protected. I worry about those other individuals, too, that have that very personalized, not personalized, but very individualized, unique component in their life where they dedicate everything to that one thing.
But the idea of belonging, right, is that you belong to many different facets of life. You are a sports person. You're a community person. You're a student. You're a father. You're an aunt. You're different things. When you're only one thing and that fails, your whole identity is gone. It doesn't even have to fail. You have to perceive that it has failed. And that's enough to throw you off course.
But the idea of belonging, right, is that you belong to many different facets of life. You are a sports person. You're a community person. You're a student. You're a father. You're an aunt. You're different things. When you're only one thing and that fails, your whole identity is gone. It doesn't even have to fail. You have to perceive that it has failed. And that's enough to throw you off course.
But the idea of belonging, right, is that you belong to many different facets of life. You are a sports person. You're a community person. You're a student. You're a father. You're an aunt. You're different things. When you're only one thing and that fails, your whole identity is gone. It doesn't even have to fail. You have to perceive that it has failed. And that's enough to throw you off course.
And so with the current definition of success, we're not doing a service for those that attain that definition and those that do not attain that definition. I think it needs to be broader. I think belonging needs to be included. I think the way that we care, not only for ourselves, but for the rest of our citizens, needs to be included. Citizenship is important. So it is dynamic.
And so with the current definition of success, we're not doing a service for those that attain that definition and those that do not attain that definition. I think it needs to be broader. I think belonging needs to be included. I think the way that we care, not only for ourselves, but for the rest of our citizens, needs to be included. Citizenship is important. So it is dynamic.
And so with the current definition of success, we're not doing a service for those that attain that definition and those that do not attain that definition. I think it needs to be broader. I think belonging needs to be included. I think the way that we care, not only for ourselves, but for the rest of our citizens, needs to be included. Citizenship is important. So it is dynamic.
So far it has been dynamic, how we define success. And hopefully it will change again.
So far it has been dynamic, how we define success. And hopefully it will change again.
So far it has been dynamic, how we define success. And hopefully it will change again.
Resilience is a physical term, right? It means you bounce, the coil bounces back to where it was originally. I like to think of the word adaptation because it means not only you bounce back, but you bounce back to a better place. Yes, we were resilient because we survived it. Some of us did, not all, right? Some of us have to deal with the grief of what happened during that time.
Resilience is a physical term, right? It means you bounce, the coil bounces back to where it was originally. I like to think of the word adaptation because it means not only you bounce back, but you bounce back to a better place. Yes, we were resilient because we survived it. Some of us did, not all, right? Some of us have to deal with the grief of what happened during that time.
Resilience is a physical term, right? It means you bounce, the coil bounces back to where it was originally. I like to think of the word adaptation because it means not only you bounce back, but you bounce back to a better place. Yes, we were resilient because we survived it. Some of us did, not all, right? Some of us have to deal with the grief of what happened during that time.
But adaptation means that not only we go back to where we were before the pandemic, but that now we've learned from that experience to be in a better place. Now, we know very little about resilience, and we definitely know very little biology about resilience. We know that having a sense of humor is good. We know that perseverance is good.
But adaptation means that not only we go back to where we were before the pandemic, but that now we've learned from that experience to be in a better place. Now, we know very little about resilience, and we definitely know very little biology about resilience. We know that having a sense of humor is good. We know that perseverance is good.
But adaptation means that not only we go back to where we were before the pandemic, but that now we've learned from that experience to be in a better place. Now, we know very little about resilience, and we definitely know very little biology about resilience. We know that having a sense of humor is good. We know that perseverance is good.
We know that the presence of an adult in a child's life that was there to give them opportunity or to talk to them about things they were going through, that's probably the best known, you But what if it's not the presence of that adult, but there's something in that child that makes them seek and maintain that type of relationship, right?
We know that the presence of an adult in a child's life that was there to give them opportunity or to talk to them about things they were going through, that's probably the best known, you But what if it's not the presence of that adult, but there's something in that child that makes them seek and maintain that type of relationship, right?
We know that the presence of an adult in a child's life that was there to give them opportunity or to talk to them about things they were going through, that's probably the best known, you But what if it's not the presence of that adult, but there's something in that child that makes them seek and maintain that type of relationship, right?