Drea Nicole
Appearances
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Yeah, because then later that year, that's when I met you at Opulence. Yes. In 2017.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Oh, my God, I love her. I said, great times. Yeah, great times. I posted that video for your birthday. Do you remember, Dre, we was... Two turned up fighting, and you took my wig off.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
We wasn't fighting for real, y'all. We was, like, wrestling. Play fighting.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
But Kellyn got this video in her phone of us rolling on the ground, and we both don't got a wig on.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
We was back in the room. Oh, okay, okay, okay. We was in the room.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Like, my little ass invited my... Shout out to my other best friend, Jasmine. We love Jasmine. I invited Jasmine on stage, and we was doing the South Side. Yeah, like... Like, everything is zero. Most of it is done. It was just real ghetto.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Good times, though. Okay, Ty. So we've been having such a good time. We didn't even get into what we're drinking today. What you got for us?
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
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Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
be about 20 questions a lot of the questions that y'all sent me were kind of similar so i merged some of the questions together and um yeah i'm gonna let y'all get in my business a little bit let y'all be a little a little nosy i know i don't normally do that what did you learn from your early to mid 20s i just lost my dad i'm 21 i'm not sure how to keep going any tips on how to keep going
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Hey Dre, asking a genuine question. Do you get lip fillers? Okay, this is another question I feel like I answer all the time, but I don't mind answering it again.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
I never really been the type. Are you making a personal YouTube channel because poor minds is changing or canceled? Let me clear the air with that.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
So, basically, we're going to give y'all some scenarios and you're going to say either yes, I'm judging or no, I'm not judging.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Okay? All right. Vastly different political views. For example, dating someone and finding out they voted for Trump.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Because why are you dating this bitch? You're just as dirty as he is. You are dirty.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
You need a black light when you come to my house. Might have to shake the wall. Yeah. Whoa.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
The wall. This next time y'all come over, don't touch nothing. Why is that thing being broken?
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Well, let me say this, guys. I be washing my sheets before y'all come over. So it's clean sheets. Mm-hmm.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Every time. Me and Lex would look at each other and we would be like... Every time. Not the feet check. The feet check every time. And our dumb asses will still go barefoot. That's what I was about to say. Why are y'all taking y'all shoes off?
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
A dish might be left with me. I ain't even gonna lie.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Looking for a job. Looking for a job. Before the employers are there.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
I agree. But yeah, friends, not so much just because, you know, somebody is going through something like Lindsay and then they need to go back and live with their parents and they have the luxury to do that. That's great because a lot of people don't even have that option. Like, a lot of people got to get it out the mood.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
They got to figure shit out and make ends meet because they don't have nobody that they can go live with. So, you know, life happens. But my man...
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
This is a good one. Painted fingernails. I know this is a trend, but everybody has their opinion on it. How do y'all feel about dating a man with painted fingernails?
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
No? No. Like, you is not about to put your fingers in my coochie with polish on them.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
We know what you like. She said a little aggressive no.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Lynn is my girl, man. Because why? Because why you had to polish me?
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Why are your nails dirty? Like, I feel like nails will tell you so much about a man. Amen. Why is there dirt underneath your nails? You didn't take a bath today. You cannot come in here and take a bath.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
You don't know what that man had to do. Okay, yeah, I know that he didn't take a bath. I know he didn't have time for that.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Well, that has happened with a few of our guests as well.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
We got one more. We've never had musty women, though.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Yeah. Why are you quoting Kevin Samuels to me?
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Is everything okay at home? Like, what is going on? Okay, I do got one more.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
I ain't never seen that. I ain't never seen an acrylic on a big toe. He got his square shape.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Because what if he has acne? You like the dead skin on your pillow.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
And the main ingredient is the same active ingredient that's in Ozempic and We Go Vee.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
We're exclusive. You not dating nobody. I'm not dating nobody. Unless you're into an open relationship. Right.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Or spend it with your booze? Because we've seen a tremendous rise in women, you know, doing Galentines every year with their homegirls. And a lot of people like to say, you know, that's beautiful that you can spend time with your friends if you don't have a man. Or are y'all just like, look, I want a man. I don't want to hang with you hoes.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Girl, fuck that. Your friends are the ones that love you. I don't want to talk to you bitches every day. Oh, my God. No, your friends are the ones that will love you when the man is gone.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
But I knew you was going to say that. I love, I don't know. I appreciate having friends when I don't have a man. Yeah. Better than being alone on Valentine's Day. Yeah.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
But what I'm saying is... Because now that I think about it, we've never had a Galentine's. I don't think I even... Have I ever called you on Valentine's Day?
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
She not, y'all. She probably should stay at home and watch movies. She ain't gonna call.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Yes, y'all. And remember, if your credit score is under 600, you could jump 28 points in the first month.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
We're going to be doing talk to me, chit chat with me. We're going to be spilling a little tea. Oh, my God. No, you didn't.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
But, yeah, I agree. Some men like the little razzle dazzle. Like, they be wanting you to wear the lingerie or, like, a little costume so they can take it off.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
This is the sprinkler. No, it is fun, though, because you can literally go with him and, like, see what he like.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Let him pick out stuff that he like versus you just buying a toy that you think y'all might both enjoy, you know?
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
I be like, hey, sit your ass down. He is cute. He fine. The material. I be like, I need to see him. Show me a picture. I'll show you, girl. He look like Lauren.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Yeah, it's like you can, they can control it from wherever they are. That's the one that I have. So if they're out of town or whatever, you have it.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
PM at gmail.com. That's I T E M O F T H E W E E K PM at gmail.com.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
It's so funny because it's so funny because that happened to me earlier. I had tripped over there, too. But yeah, I think anything that Drake and Party Next Door do together is just always going to be a classic. So, you know, I feel like it's... It's going to be a good album because it's supposed to be an album. Okay. Drake loves a collab. He does love a collab.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
But, yeah, in height of Beyonce announcing the tour, I've been listening to Cowboy Carter. Again. Again. Because it's not that I ever really just stopped. But I haven't, I will say, I haven't listened to it a whole go-round for probably a few months.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Yes, thank you, Ty. Do y'all feel like y'all give good advice?
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
So we're going to ask some questions. I think you give good advice, too. I think you do.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
If you have any questions, send them to askpourminds at gmail.com. Send us your questions. Send us your testimonials. Because, you know, sometimes we be giving bad advice, too. Question number one. Ooh, your question long.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Maybe we shouldn't. Question number one. Hey, ladies. First off, let me say I love y'all down. The show is amazing, and I look forward to always watching.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
So I've been cool with this guy for five months and everything between us works. We get along really well. So he's going out of the country and is going to be gone for a month, which is fine. However, since he's been away, I haven't really heard from him.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
She said... I mean, I can't... She's been cool with him for five months.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Don't worry. On vacation. I'm about to blow that phone up. What, you're on a jet ski? I would be blowing it up. What, what? Because if he on the jet ski, pull up next to him. What are you doing?
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Cold world. They've been going... He's been going for a long time. Why the hell I haven't heard from you one time? Because you know what I'm doing? What if I'm not okay? Right.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Haters. But like I was saying, I just feel like, yes, if this man really fucked with you like that, you would have heard from him at least once, you know? And that's bare minimum. I think you just need to let it go because I don't think his feelings going to be that hurt.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
He be there. I'll be there. I'm here. You see me.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
She did that because I be saying the letters be too long, and that shit still long. Girl, you're married with a family. I can see it from over here. It's like five paragraphs. It's still too long. Tomato. They both weird. You're a loser.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
But also, as a married happily, because you said happy, happily married woman, why are you even worried about what's going on? Like, I would just cut her off.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
What? She did have a poor mom's shirt on. Well, this is what I will say. I used to pull up, and it used to be business up top, chilling at the bottom. So underneath the table, I used to have flip flops. Yeah. And sweatpants. But then at the top, I would have on like a little corset, something sexy.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Yeah, I just think that it's too many men in the world. Like, yeah, I'm happily married now. But why the hell do you need to go date somebody?
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
I care because you're a weirdo. Why would you go and fuck somebody that you know I used to fuck with?
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Not technically, because you didn't fuck him first. So, it was my mom first.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
I'm next, bitch. And you ain't getting them back. I just feel like if you gotta do all that explaining, just let it go. I'm next. Because the shit getting confused. You finna write in about me. I'm like, what? Who was that?
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
We need a photo of the man. And we need a photo of this man. We need a photo. So Licks can find him on Facebook.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Stop. But this has been... So fun, y'all. This has been so fun. I love y'all. I'm so glad that y'all came. We love y'all so much. We love y'all too. This has just been so great. We've never had our friends on the couch with us. Like she said, outside of killing. And that was like six years ago. So I'm so glad y'all are here. This is so great. Yeah.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Lauren... I said, hey, Lauren, I don't want no smoke. Come and just get my little wing and head on out.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Use Code Lauren, baby. Use Code Lauren, baby. She the ambassador of Pollo Tropical.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
I was like, thank you. I didn't want no chicken. By the way, though, I was fucked.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
I had a two-piece with the two-piece piece. And I think somebody said something to Laura. I can't remember who it was.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
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Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Like, I feel like all three of y'all are very, very supportive friends. And it's so important to have those type of people in your corner. Because one thing about y'all, y'all going to pull up to the event. Y'all going to pull up everywhere. Y'all going to pull up to the event. And in different cities and stuff, too. Facts. Facts. Because, Lynn, you came to the Miami show last year, I think.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
I can tell he's been lying and he needs some talk too. Girl.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
Girl. I'm trying to play with this. This the bootleg version.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
But the funny thing is, Lynn not even quiet. I just feel like she just be observing and paying attention. But then she say stuff that you would never think she would say. Like, she always be saying stuff. And I be like... Why would you say that? I always say Lynn's Twitter is my burner account. Literally. Because she say everything I'm thinking.
Pour Minds Podcast
Where My Gurls At? FT. Our Besties
And you know, that situation was crazy, too, because the whole weekend... We was there. I've been la-la-ling. I don't even know. People don't like me. I don't even know. They having issues. They feeling no type of way. They telling Lex, like, you be running up behind Dre and all of this crazy stuff.
Pour Minds Podcast
Step Yo Game Up
Honestly, if shit shut down right now, I'm good for about a good seven, eight months. Same. In seven, eight months, I can figure something out.
Pour Minds Podcast
Step Yo Game Up
If you have real friends and community, go make an Instagram or a Facebook. Like, you can keep in contact with people. I get it, because I've made friends from the internet.
Pour Minds Podcast
Step Yo Game Up
We seen it already. It's the wild times and we live it in. Okay? Mm-hmm. All right, so let us know how y'all feel about the TikTok, man. I know y'all probably finna get on our ass in these comments, but it is.
Pour Minds Podcast
Step Yo Game Up
So y'all know I've been going to acting classes and y'all know I'm big trash. Well, I'm medium trash now. Don't say that.
Pour Minds Podcast
Step Yo Game Up
So I feel like I'm getting better. I feel like I'm getting more confident. That's good. So, yeah, I've been keeping up with that. And I have been really focused. And I have been doing so much for, like, Love Lex P. I've still been ordering equipment. Oh, my God. So, obviously, I'm filming Love Lex P at home.
Pour Minds Podcast
Step Yo Game Up
But with that being said, I forgot how hard it is to shoot and produce your own thing. Because, you know, we haven't done that in so long. Yeah. So it's really taking me back to the Wind Down Wednesday days when I used to be, and we used to be trying to figure out how to connect this to that, why this sound like that.
Pour Minds Podcast
Step Yo Game Up
Mm-hmm. So, speaking of traveling and doing nice things, you had a tweet the other day about luxury.
Pour Minds Podcast
Step Yo Game Up
So, we're going to define. Let me look it up so I don't misquote you, child. Thank you. Thank you.
Pour Minds Podcast
Step Yo Game Up
That's fair. I like that. I think I'm the same way. I'm like, luxury to me is just being free. Debt free. Fuck nigga free.
Pour Minds Podcast
Step Yo Game Up
Gwen Stefani said, we're loaded and we're not going to play. That was a good song. That was a good song. He was on the read.
Pour Minds Podcast
Step Yo Game Up
I think that it's crazy because I think it's still a thing that people believe to this day because this is more so like opinion. Maybe not myth, but this is like an opinion type thing.
Pour Minds Podcast
Step Yo Game Up
I think it's crazy that people swear up and down like sex is taboo and it should not be talked about because we had a clip that just went viral with us with Janiece and we were talking about, you know, like giving head or whatever and
Pour Minds Podcast
Step Yo Game Up
Because that's something I'm like, after going out of town, we went out of town, I was like, okay, I have to learn Spanish. Yeah. It's getting ridiculous.
Pour Minds Podcast
Step Yo Game Up
It's low-key kind of hard to get pregnant, low-key. Easy? Like, especially as you get older. I don't know. I don't be trying.
Pour Minds Podcast
Step Yo Game Up
I have one. I used to think, like... I won't say it's a myth. I just think it's something stupid and silly. But I used to think, like, if you had, like, a hickey, like, you were a whore. Like, girls that had hickeys... Oh, my God. You were a nasty slut. You let somebody kiss your neck?
Pour Minds Podcast
Step Yo Game Up
A 16-year-old is a child. Yeah. So, you know, we're just talking about all ages 0 to 17. Zero? Zero.
Pour Minds Podcast
Step Yo Game Up
So y'all got time to prepare. Everybody needs to prepare. We're doing a tap. I've been waiting to dust off my tap shoes.
Pour Minds Podcast
Step Yo Game Up
I was talking to my old self. That was just me talking to my old self, champ. All right. Hi. I guess she wants her name to be said. She lifting in the... Hi, I'm Kiora.
Pour Minds Podcast
Step Yo Game Up
Girl, the type of man you like in six years is going to change. So don't worry about it.
Pour Minds Podcast
Step Yo Game Up
But yeah, I just want to shout out to everybody that subscribed. We got 30,000 views in the first 48 hours. Okay? So, but yeah, y'all make sure y'all tune in Monday. It'll be episode two.
Pour Minds Podcast
Step Yo Game Up
Okay, so speaking of drinks, because I got my little drink here. I don't know about y'all, but I'm going hard for 75 days, all right. 75 hard. Okay.
Pour Minds Podcast
Step Yo Game Up
So I want to do a quick check up with everybody. Y'all leave comments. Have y'all been keeping up with your New Year's resolutions so far? We are getting towards the end of January.
Pour Minds Podcast
Step Yo Game Up
Make a little snow cone. Don't do that. But anyway, okay, let's get to these topics because I am so ready to talk about this. I have been dying to talk about this.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
No, he did not. You know what? Most black women are splitting rent with their man. Most black women... Facts.
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
That's all them. You seen that throwing napkins?
Pour Minds Podcast
Why Yall Aint Give Me Nun FT. Slim Thug
You ain't... I'm telling you. You ain't woke up shit over here.
Pour Minds Podcast
All My Children
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Pour Minds Podcast
All My Children
That's kickoff without the C. Get your first month free at getkickoff.com slash poorminds. Must sign up via getkickoff.com backslash poorminds to activate offer. What's up, y'all? It's your girl, XP. And it's your girl, Dre Nicole.
Pour Minds Podcast
It Gets Sticky FT. Big Sexy
It's too easy. It's too easy. Even if you got your own nigga, when your nigga be mad at you... It's so easy to get your man to not be mad at you or to get your man back or whatever the case. Men are just easy.
Pour Minds Podcast
It Gets Sticky FT. Big Sexy
Because you know, you said you wake up on 10. Oh, I wake up on one every day.
Pour Minds Podcast
It Gets Sticky FT. Big Sexy
We are. We some yappers now. We be over here chatting.
Pour Minds Podcast
It Gets Sticky FT. Big Sexy
I give up too easy. We lucky. Oh, this is... You getting all the easy ones.
Pour Minds Podcast
It Gets Sticky FT. Big Sexy
It's too easy. It's too easy. Even if you got your own nigga, when your nigga be mad at you, it's so easy to get your man to not be mad at you or to get your man back or whatever the case.
Pour Minds Podcast
It Gets Sticky FT. Big Sexy
I will beat your motherfucking ass. Like... You... Is you serious?
Pour Minds Podcast
It Gets Sticky FT. Big Sexy
That's why I went back to my old school. Like, my last relationship, I mean, I won't say last because it's kind of still. But I use my old school thing. You know, you go through and like they pictures and follow them. And they be like, ooh, she fine. That's my new thing. I like to do, that's how I pick them. That's how I rather do the choosing now.
Pour Minds Podcast
It Gets Sticky FT. Big Sexy
I love Santana! The one where he was shaking his titty. Yes! He...
Pour Minds Podcast
It Gets Sticky FT. Big Sexy
He is so funny. He is so funny. Y'all need to do some more stuff together.
Pour Minds Podcast
It Gets Sticky FT. Big Sexy
She said something about Glow said she like her niggas medium ugly. Uh-huh. Uh-huh. I said, he said she wouldn't talk about me. Fine, though.
Pour Minds Podcast
It Gets Sticky FT. Big Sexy
I wanted to make the face to see if he knew. We gonna move on.
Pour Minds Podcast
It Gets Sticky FT. Big Sexy
Oh my God. Don't forget. We done. We done gone for you.
Pour Minds Podcast
It Gets Sticky FT. Big Sexy
Okay, y'all, let's get into the tea with Love Lex Peep. Mmm, tasty. Okay, okay, okay. Now it's time to move into our favorite segment of the week.
Pour Minds Podcast
It Gets Sticky FT. Big Sexy
My vagina keeps jumping like it's craving something inside.
Pour Minds Podcast
It Gets Sticky FT. Big Sexy
Should men pay bill? Should men pay bill? Yes, no. Check answer below.
Pour Minds Podcast
It Gets Sticky FT. Big Sexy
Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, yeah. Always on my mind. Hey, baby.
Pour Minds Podcast
It Gets Sticky FT. Big Sexy
Come around and get shot. Woo. When I see. You're so sexy, boy. So sexy, boy.
Pour Minds Podcast
It Gets Sticky FT. Big Sexy
It was my shots. That was my bad, y'all. Y'all know I be off beat. We'll see y'all next week. Woo. I heard it.
Pour Minds Podcast
It Gets Sticky FT. Big Sexy
Gang me, okay? Oh, my girl did her piece. So, talk about you and Jada's friendship and how that came about. My girl did gang me. Yes.
Pour Minds Podcast
It Gets Sticky FT. Big Sexy
Yes. Social media influencer. A meme god. I got like six memes of you on my phone. No, you don't. Oh, I do, okay? And I don't know if you call your... But you a comedian to me. Funny as hell. We have... The one and only Big Sexy and the Baddest!
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
I love the shoe. I love the high-low moment. Thank you. When Fashion Nova say how you want to pay, Klarna.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
No, go ahead. So let me, look, I'm nosy now. Uh-oh, come on.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Oh, so you just do like a little... You know, I burn.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
I didn't know. Shit. We're trying to be respectful. I'm like, day, can we get them?
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
I know you got to go. Yeah. Because if you do my hair, I'm going to go like this. Right. Uh-huh. I'm going to say, I was already doing it.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
We're going to have a little drink. Oh, shit. Okay.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Let me see. She just went down J-Hut. She got my wig on? She probably do.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Yeah. They'd be like, let's stop doing that. I'd be like, they said my wee wasn't happening.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
I think everybody's famous. I'd be like, hey, Camila!
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
That's what I said. They gonna look at me and be like, it's her. That's the one that got the nut.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Don't give that man no money. We ain't stop giving him no money.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
It's going to give, like, oh, my God, I'm so shy.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
He don't got time to make music. Yes, y'all.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
We don't need that kind of express hair. Uh-uh. Yeah.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
All right, let us know where we can find you and all that good stuff.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Should men pay bill? Yes, no. Check answer below.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Ooh, ooh, ooh. Ah. Ooh, baby. Ooh. Come on, sir. We vibing now.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
And there's no other man that gives me what I want. He makes me feel this way.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
No, I'd rather be with you. I love the way you look at me, stare into my eyes. What do they say to you? Boy, don't be shy.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
I know my soul. Oh! Oh! Oh, my goodness. I forgot the lyrics. Oh. Oh! Oh! Oh!
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Hello, Grammys. You heard it here first of all. Right. I need to get in the studio. Grammys. Y'all give it up for Alonzo. We'll see y'all next week. Yes, period. That was cute. Dre said, I'd rather be with you. Right, she did.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Just sitting there. You got to really curl up. I'm telling you, I be struggling. Okay, so before we get on, because I know I'm going to forget because I'm the only one drinking today.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
Okay, y'all, let's get into the tea with Love Lex Peep. Mmm, tasty.
Pour Minds Podcast
Stylin And Profilin FT. Alonzo Arnold
I don't like to be too high. Right. You probably have a little Reggie. Right, look.
Pour Minds Podcast
Toot It N Boot It
Whether this is your last stop and you growing with us or you move on to do something great. We shaking it up up here.
Pour Minds Podcast
Toot It N Boot It
Men who use dating apps, they don't have that walk. Honestly, a nigga can walk in front of me right now. Oh, you on hinge, huh?
Pour Minds Podcast
Toot It N Boot It
fuck y'all, I don't need to be on there anyway. Because it be some people that I know that's in there. I'm like, how you get in there before me?
Pour Minds Podcast
Toot It N Boot It
That's what I said. I'm a beautiful, bodacious woman. Yes. I got my bustier on my spank.
Pour Minds Podcast
Toot It N Boot It
I be looking like a dirty slut. Me too. Do you know, like, you just be laying on a bed with nut all on your booty? Mm-mm. Just a whore.
Pour Minds Podcast
Toot It N Boot It
It be your stomach, because then it fall in your belly. Well, I got it.
Pour Minds Podcast
Toot It N Boot It
That's why I say, a lot of times we got to, we going to go to the bathroom together. You know what I'm saying? That's sweet. Yeah. I love a group trip. Well, I love a group trip. I be looking like, I put that thing on you.
Pour Minds Podcast
Toot It N Boot It
But honestly, y'all don't be having crust because that coochie be dry. That's why y'all don't be cleaning it.
Pour Minds Podcast
Toot It N Boot It
That's how I be doing. You got to put that dick all up in here.
Pour Minds Podcast
Toot It N Boot It
I'm sorry. You're going to eat this coochie and kiss me all up in my mouth. No mouthwash needed. All right. I like that. Yeah.
Pour Minds Podcast
Toot It N Boot It
If you're a Patreon member, make sure you put that in the headline. You get to skip the line, and we're going to do the best we can to give y'all advice. When is he going to come out?
Pour Minds Podcast
Toot It N Boot It
I don't even know if it was a burp, a sneeze, or a fart. Gripping him. gripping and farting, gripping and farting.
Pour Minds Podcast
Toot It N Boot It
It definitely do be gripping and farting. It do be gripping and farting. Oh, God.
Pour Minds Podcast
H'eron Heroines FT. Blynn Cuhh
Like, I have not skipped a day working out in 27 days. That's too long.
Pour Minds Podcast
H'eron Heroines FT. Blynn Cuhh
We got two 205 princesses in the building today. Shout out to Shay, too. Okay. You can't forget Shay. She gonna be mad.
Pour Minds Podcast
H'eron Heroines FT. Blynn Cuhh
Like, I used to be an ass-ass a lot. I did. But my phone and stuff, too, especially once I got a phone in school.
Pour Minds Podcast
H'eron Heroines FT. Blynn Cuhh
Oh, probably when I slipped and fell on my back in the club.
Pour Minds Podcast
H'eron Heroines FT. Blynn Cuhh
Oh, it's banned in your state? And motherfucking Alabama. Oh, my God. Now she got to use a VPN.
Pour Minds Podcast
H'eron Heroines FT. Blynn Cuhh
Then he did a lot of crossovers with, like, other women on the album and stuff because he has, like... Yeba on this album. Yeah. Pim.
Pour Minds Podcast
H'eron Heroines FT. Blynn Cuhh
When did you know that you was on to something? Like, when was you like, okay, I should keep doing these?
Pour Minds Podcast
H'eron Heroines FT. Blynn Cuhh
Okay, y'all. Question number one. Hey, Lex P and Drea Nicole.
Pour Minds Podcast
H'eron Heroines FT. Blynn Cuhh
Damn. Mm-hmm. No, this is D. That's because she put your girl D, D. You wrong for that.
Pour Minds Podcast
H'eron Heroines FT. Blynn Cuhh
I get it. But like MeLynn said, the dick being good, is it worth that nigga becoming your baby daddy? Probably not.
Pour Minds Podcast
H'eron Heroines FT. Blynn Cuhh
He wants something consistent, but he live with his baby mama. He consistently live with his mother.
Pour Minds Podcast
H'eron Heroines FT. Blynn Cuhh
You shouldn't want to get in the middle of that. You need to leave that family alone.
Pour Minds Podcast
H'eron Heroines FT. Blynn Cuhh
Hey, hey, hey, hey, don't you violate me, cause I'ma make you hate me. If you decide to mess with my chop, you down to size.
Pour Minds Podcast
Bullschnitzel
It do say it back on my passport. I said orange wear. Don't do me. None of them from the back. Yeah. Leave me alone, you fucking bully.
Pour Minds Podcast
Bullschnitzel
With extra truffle. Au gratin potatoes. Bitch, I don't even know what an au gratin is.
Pour Minds Podcast
Bullschnitzel
Not knowing that everybody paid me, but I was doing that the whole time in Turks.
Pour Minds Podcast
Bullschnitzel
Hmm. But you mean the people. Girl, the people need to stay their ass on the ground. Oh, my God.
Pour Minds Podcast
Bullschnitzel
You better get that college education. Don't play with us. I see D.C. Girl, thank you.
Pour Minds Podcast
Mystery Inc FT. Sistas Who Kill Podcast
And another thing that I feel like really separates y'all too is like how y'all highlight the difference between how black women and white women are treated. I mean, with, you know, the justice system. Because I feel like that's something that a lot of other podcasts don't do in the true crime space. Yeah.
Pour Minds Podcast
Mystery Inc FT. Sistas Who Kill Podcast
The Menendez brothers. Yes. You don't see that with black women. Like, we're trying to research a case right now, and she has a book. And I can find the title of the book. I can see the cover of the book. I cannot find that book anywhere. And it's like, but I can find... I can find any white murderess's book on Amazon, but I can't find her book anywhere, anywhere.
Pour Minds Podcast
Mystery Inc FT. Sistas Who Kill Podcast
And I'm like, I want to hear her side of the story so that I can properly tell the story or get details that don't exist. And it's very, very difficult. Yeah.
Pour Minds Podcast
Mystery Inc FT. Sistas Who Kill Podcast
I know who you're talking about. I can't remember the lady name either.
Pour Minds Podcast
Mystery Inc FT. Sistas Who Kill Podcast
You know, the R. Kelly case is honestly so triggering for me because he had a victim profile, just like a murderer. He was looking for young black women and
Pour Minds Podcast
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that were estranged from their families that wanted to uh that wanted to have a musical career right yeah and I just think about myself like I was estranged from my family fresh into college at an HBCU really wanted to get my career off the ground and I'm like wow like I fit his victim profile like it that one that's the one where it's like that one hits so close to home that I I think I watched the first documentary when the other ones came out I just literally can't because
Pour Minds Podcast
Mystery Inc FT. Sistas Who Kill Podcast
People don't realize that just because it's not murder doesn't mean that it wasn't a crime. Right. It's a serious crime. So, it's hard. Yeah, it's very cringy online when people get online and they like, well, I don't care what R. Kelly did. I'm still going to listen to his music. You sound crazy as fuck because if this was your daughter, your niece, your sister, you would be raising hell.
Pour Minds Podcast
Mystery Inc FT. Sistas Who Kill Podcast
But because it doesn't affect you, you don't care. Oh, let's still listen. Let's step in the name of love. Right. Like, no.
Pour Minds Podcast
Mystery Inc FT. Sistas Who Kill Podcast
I agree with that for sure. And then y'all are best friends. We love having besties on the coast. Have we ever had besties on the couch? I think we have before. Ooh. I'm trying to think. I think... Well, I guess I was thinking about cocktails. Yeah. They're not best friends. They're friends, though. Okay. Yeah. But anyways, you know, I love having friends on the couch, shall I say.
Pour Minds Podcast
Mystery Inc FT. Sistas Who Kill Podcast
I mean, I feel like we have to put it out there because if we don't, nobody else is. I remember I was reading an article. This was actually a few years ago, so the numbers have probably changed now. But I remember I was reading an article and it said like 300,000 women are missing in the United States. And 30% of them are black women. But we only make up 14% of the population.
Pour Minds Podcast
Mystery Inc FT. Sistas Who Kill Podcast
That's really insane if you think about it.
Pour Minds Podcast
Mystery Inc FT. Sistas Who Kill Podcast
A lot of these local... a lot of local governments and, like, states have to make up their own rules. They have to make up stuff like the Ebony Alert because the federal government is doing nothing to help find these black missing women and girls.
Pour Minds Podcast
Mystery Inc FT. Sistas Who Kill Podcast
Yeah, it's similar to... The Amber Alert. The Amber Alert, but for black women. I never knew that was a thing. And the thing is, since the federal government isn't doing it, like, It's state by state. Some states don't care.
Pour Minds Podcast
Mystery Inc FT. Sistas Who Kill Podcast
They do not care. They don't care if you are a victim. They don't care if you're missing.
Pour Minds Podcast
Mystery Inc FT. Sistas Who Kill Podcast
They don't care unless you have the money to give to them. And some states are... They have the people involved that are doing... But a lot of these red states still do not care. And they won't lift a finger for you.
Pour Minds Podcast
Mystery Inc FT. Sistas Who Kill Podcast
Just to know that there are platforms out there.
Pour Minds Podcast
Mystery Inc FT. Sistas Who Kill Podcast
People are doing that as well. And even in our discussion group, we have like 25,000 people in there, and all they do is discuss true crime. So they're constantly keeping up with cases.
Pour Minds Podcast
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My family member. Your family member went missing? One of my little cousins went missing in Texas, and so I was just in... I was just like, I have this platform. My little cousin is missing. Oh, my God. And then one of our fans reached out to one of her friends that lived in Texas in Dallas. And he was like, oh, yeah, I've seen him. and was able to reach out.
Pour Minds Podcast
Mystery Inc FT. Sistas Who Kill Podcast
So I was able to reach out to my aunt that lived in there. Yeah, yeah. So they all were able to reunite and find him. So, yeah, we found him. Oh, wow.
Pour Minds Podcast
Mystery Inc FT. Sistas Who Kill Podcast
Kickoff is an app that's on the App Store, and it's the number one credit building app. If your credit score is under 600 points, you can jump like 28 points in the first month of using Kickoff by just making on-time payments.
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Mystery Inc FT. Sistas Who Kill Podcast
Yeah. I'm Drayna Cole. And I'm Lex P. And together we are Travel Queens.
Pour Minds Podcast
Mystery Inc FT. Sistas Who Kill Podcast
I love having friends on the couch. But y'all happen to be besties just like us. So could y'all tell us a little bit about how y'all met and how y'all decided to start a true crime podcast?
Pour Minds Podcast
Mystery Inc FT. Sistas Who Kill Podcast
Yes. The anniversary of her death just came up.
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And I always ask myself why. And I think part of it is the lack of coverage. Like people just don't care. The government entities don't care. And I think another part of it is that it's really fun on these white true crime podcasts because you have a lot of witnesses. Black folks don't want to talk to the TV about their crimes or their cousin's crimes or their mama's crimes. And I think that...
Pour Minds Podcast
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It's something in the culture that we have, which I think helps us in some ways, but it also hinders us in other ways. Like, we did a case... Because you're snitching, if you say. I was just about to say that.
Pour Minds Podcast
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We did a case in... No, in St. Louis. And somebody was like, dang, y'all finally did a case in St. Louis. Like, we always... There's always crimes. And I was like, yeah, but all the crimes are gang-related. And this crime, somebody killed somebody because somebody was a witness to this crime. And it was because of... The reason that it came out is because people were snitching.
Pour Minds Podcast
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Nobody wants to tell the crimes because nobody wants to end up being the next victim. So I guess the question is, how do we bring light to these stories while also bringing peace to the community? Because people don't want to talk.
Pour Minds Podcast
Mystery Inc FT. Sistas Who Kill Podcast
And now they smoking on somebody in the lyrics because he died 10 years ago. So then he retaliated with this rap dance. Oh my gosh. It be so much. And it's so alarming how young they are. Young. They be like 12 on the block. Yes. Wet net blocker. 12 and already got a couple bodies. And I'm like, I didn't even know what that meant. At 12.
Pour Minds Podcast
Mystery Inc FT. Sistas Who Kill Podcast
Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.
Pour Minds Podcast
Mystery Inc FT. Sistas Who Kill Podcast
And I was trying to figure out who this girl was that was always hanging out with my man. Okay.
Pour Minds Podcast
Mystery Inc FT. Sistas Who Kill Podcast
Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.
Pour Minds Podcast
Mystery Inc FT. Sistas Who Kill Podcast
Right, and then ruins the friendship on his own, so... Okay. And so we weren't friends at first. But high school, like, I was kind of the new kid on the block. I made some friends that actually weren't really cool. And it was a lot of drama. And then one day Taz came up to me when we were in class together. She said... I know we not cool like that, but them girls is not your friends. Yeah.
Pour Minds Podcast
Mystery Inc FT. Sistas Who Kill Podcast
They are talking about you right now. And I was like, what? She was like, we love a real. She was like, I know we not cool, but like.
Pour Minds Podcast
Mystery Inc FT. Sistas Who Kill Podcast
Yeah, she was like, I know your business and I should not because we not cool. Right. And then ever since then, I was like, you a real.
Pour Minds Podcast
Mystery Inc FT. Sistas Who Kill Podcast
All white bricks. A little fraud would have been a little better than that. Is he cleaning his money properly? Like, is he going to be, am I going to be set for two years?
Pour Minds Podcast
Mystery Inc FT. Sistas Who Kill Podcast
I mean, people do. They open in restaurants and shit. People clean their money.
Pour Minds Podcast
Mystery Inc FT. Sistas Who Kill Podcast
Yeah. We have... We just did a case, and the girl is in prison for the rest of her life, and she has a man. They... They fell in love. They met in a Christian group. And even though she has life in prison without the possibility of parole, she is hoping.
Pour Minds Podcast
Mystery Inc FT. Sistas Who Kill Podcast
Murder. Of course. It's the only time you don't get no parole. She is hoping to get out so that she can actually get married to this man that is a... He looks like an old deacon. Oh, my goodness. But, I mean... The men do it too. I mean, men get desperate just like that.
Pour Minds Podcast
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Like, what if y'all was in Louis and, like, he just bought you a purse and... And he swipes the card. And what if this card has an alert on it? And they say, please stay here. And now you're stuck with him in the store with your Louis and your Chanel. But they about to take you too. Girl, I didn't tell you nothing about me. I don't care about snitching.
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Because I damn sure would have been like, I ain't know nothing about that. This ain't got nothing to do with me. But something like that never happened to me before. But I was dating this guy back in the day when I was probably like 24. And he was a scammer. And we had went to a club. He had got a section. Bought like five bottles. The tab was like $1,500. Having a good time. They come out.
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The waitress come out. It's time for him to pay the tab. Cars. The pieces is not hitting. He goes through like four or five cards. Pieces is still not hitting. And I'm like, I hope you're not looking at me because I'm not about to pay this shit. I'm about to dip on your ass. I ordered the orange juice.
Pour Minds Podcast
Mystery Inc FT. Sistas Who Kill Podcast
Girl, luckily though, he ended up finally, like he was with a few of his friends and one of his friends had a little piece that hit. But yeah, I definitely not seen it happen.
Pour Minds Podcast
Mystery Inc FT. Sistas Who Kill Podcast
She was like, we need to start a podcast.
Pour Minds Podcast
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Why did you do that? And that's what I don't understand. There's a lot of people that have money that like to steal. There's lots of people that have money that like to rob people. And I'm like... Why not make it honest? Yeah. It's so fun to make it honest. I was going to say maybe it's greed, but no, some people just love the thrill. Yeah.
Pour Minds Podcast
Mystery Inc FT. Sistas Who Kill Podcast
And crazy enough, too, a lot of the time, people don't think that they're going to get caught.
Pour Minds Podcast
Mystery Inc FT. Sistas Who Kill Podcast
I mean, he didn't. Yeah. He didn't, essentially. Are you sure?
Pour Minds Podcast
Mystery Inc FT. Sistas Who Kill Podcast
Isn't it bad? I'm sitting here like, I need a friend like that that can find me some miles. Right.
Pour Minds Podcast
Mystery Inc FT. Sistas Who Kill Podcast
I have an ex that's in prison for life. Oh, what do you need? Oh, wow. Murder.
Pour Minds Podcast
Mystery Inc FT. Sistas Who Kill Podcast
It was dumb, too. Do you feel like the signs was there? You know what? Okay, so I did not date him while he was on a murder spree.
Pour Minds Podcast
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It was a spree. I was going to say. He was on his spree and everybody. I dated this guy. He actually was like my summer camp, middle school summer camp boyfriend.
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And I remember everybody was like... Mariah, you're such a goody two-shoes. Like, that's not the person that you want to be with. And I was like, what are you talking about? Like... I'm going into the seventh grade.
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And so obviously we broke up because the summer ended and I had to go back to school and he ended up going to high school with us. And we're actually going to tell the story on our Patreon, but now he's in prison for the rest of his life for murder. And all my friends are like, remember when you used to date him in middle school? And I'm like, yes, he's a murderer.
Pour Minds Podcast
Mystery Inc FT. Sistas Who Kill Podcast
Oh, my God. But he passed away long after I stopped fucking him, though. All right. That ain't have nothing to do with me. R.I.P. R.I.P. Yes, R.I.P.
Pour Minds Podcast
Mystery Inc FT. Sistas Who Kill Podcast
We have a brand new show dropping. Yeah, so we have a brand new show dropping, y'all, on Patreon. It's going to air on September 2nd, and it's called Porn Chronicles. We're going to be doing so much stuff on there. We're going to be doing challenges. If you can't go to Bill and O'Shea, where the hell could you go? If you can't go to Bella Noche, where the hell can you go?
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We're going to be doing talk to me, chit chat with me. We're going to be spilling a little tea. Oh, my God. No, you didn't. Oh, my God. Everything y'all been wanting to see, we gonna be doing it right here on Patreon.
Pour Minds Podcast
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What I put on the list, y'all, is never settle. And if you're an avid listener of Poor Minds, then you probably have heard me say this.
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numerous times like i say this all the time i've always felt this way don't ever settle for anything in life if it's not exactly what you want don't let people tell you that you cannot get what you want out of this life because it's absolutely possible i had so many people when i was in my 20s telling me that the things that i wanted was unrealistic
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unreasonable and if I had listened to those people I wouldn't be where I am today it's not for anybody else to understand that as long as you know what it is and you willing to put the work in to get the things that you want you don't have to settle and don't let people convince you that you have to settle it's usually people that are settling in their own life that try to you know make other people feel like oh you can't do this or you can't make that happen you're thinking too far outside the box how you gonna do that
Pour Minds Podcast
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Uh, no, boo. You can't do that. I can do whatever I want to do, okay? And I will. So, yeah, don't ever.
Pour Minds Podcast
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I mean, crimes of passion have been going on since... biblical times. So I definitely feel that. Who did that in the Bible? Who did that? Lex, please. No, I know. What? Is that in the book of Revelation? Goodbye. But I feel like, seriously, though, like, this has been going on for a really long time. Like, women are the number one reason for wars. Boom. If you really think about it.
Pour Minds Podcast
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So absolutely, I think it's connected. I mean, not recently, but in probably the past five years, it was an Atlanta rapper who passed away. Oh, yes. Who ended up getting killed because somebody's boyfriend came home. He was at a woman's house and her boyfriend came home and the boyfriend shot her. I mean, shot him and killed him. So it happens all the time.
Pour Minds Podcast
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You know what? That's the whole show. Surprisingly, not a lot of our cases are like that. But I think we also try to separate them out. But you would be surprised how many people killed just because... Their lover is acting up or their lover decides that they want to start taking the money away. We had a case, it's a very, very popular case in Atlanta called, the lady's name is Dionne Ball.
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And she was dating this guy, super, he was like super big businessman in Atlanta, very well known. And he had multiple women. Like, at his funeral, his secretary was getting credit cards from all these women that were authorized users on his account.
Pour Minds Podcast
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Because the women were like, he's dead and we don't know what to do with his credit cards. Oh, I would have kept mine. Well, they didn't want to, they didn't know who the murderer was at the time. So they were just like, we don't want to be thought.
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I think we told the line about when to laugh and when not. And I think we do that really well. But we've honestly, we've made mistakes. Like, we've talked about a case where it was too soon and somebody reached out and was like, hey, so we just put them in the ground. Wow. Do not tell this story. And I think because we were so caught up in the fact that, like, it's a hot story.
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And he wanted to cut her off. And so she got very upset and in the middle of the night came to his house and bludgeoned him to death. Oh, my God. The craziest part about this story for me is everybody talked about him being a clean man, but they couldn't figure out which woman did it because this was like a while ago before waxing was very popular.
Pour Minds Podcast
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When they went into his bed, there was like multiple women's pubic hair. Oh, my God. And so they were like, we don't know which woman did... So they're contacting all the women that he was sleeping with based off of the pubic hair. The pubic hair? In his sheets. Oh, my gosh. And... She had a husband, but he was cutting her off financially, and so she was very upset about that.
Pour Minds Podcast
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You can't just say, I got mad. There's more excuses when you're young. Like, if you're late teens, early 20s, I'm like, okay, you're still figuring out how to do those things.
Pour Minds Podcast
Mystery Inc FT. Sistas Who Kill Podcast
But she been up for parole a lot of times, though. get out.
Pour Minds Podcast
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If I was her, I'd be like parole board. Because she much safer. Can I have a couple more years? I need a few more years. Because I can't do this.
Pour Minds Podcast
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Everybody's talking about it on TikTok right now. We need to tell this story. We've definitely made those mistakes. And also, all of our cases are about black women. Right. And so it's very hard because the media does not represent black women in the best light, no matter what. Right.
Pour Minds Podcast
Mystery Inc FT. Sistas Who Kill Podcast
I feel like she's truly... She's much safer because them Selena stans... Hmm.
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But I feel like... They're probably going to have her in some type of witness protection program. Yeah. I mean, well, not witness protection, but, you know, some type of, like, protective custody. Yeah. They might as well keep her in the prison.
Pour Minds Podcast
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Because they got to know letting her be free and just roam around is not going to be safe for her. That's the cards that she dealt for herself. Yeah. That's true.
Pour Minds Podcast
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Exactly. And everybody don't take hurt the same way.
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They don't care. You know what I mean? They be like, yeah, we both finna be hurting. And there was a time where I didn't have things to lose, so... Ooh.
Pour Minds Podcast
Mystery Inc FT. Sistas Who Kill Podcast
Um... I... How do I want to tell this story? Once upon a time... Don't confess me. Don't cry. Don't confess me. Don't cry. We already told you. We're bitches. Once upon a time, I was dating my ex, and her and I, we had a very tumultuous relationship. And when we were together, I mean... I'm constantly arguing. I mean, Taz has been my friend for a long time.
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So one day, like, things really hit the fan. And we got into, like, a big, big fight. Like, very physical altercation. Calling the police. She got arrested. And so I called. See, I ain't shit. And this was my early 20s.
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first i did thing was call him i'll be like your daughter in jail go get a click and then i called her best friend and i was like your friend is in jail fuck her and if she ever come back to this bitch i'm gonna kill her ass and her friend called me back and said so you know i have a voicemail saying that you're gonna kill my friend if you ever do something right and i was like period probably shouldn't have said that probably shouldn't have said that and i am almost sure that she probably still if she was me i'm sure she still has that voicemail saved i was like 23 yeah but i meant it
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So it takes a lot for us to take the information that's available and then kind of pick apart what part is the media sensationalizing, which part is like, Her real life. Mm-hmm.
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I don't mean it now. I don't mean it to a girl no more. But, like, I'm sure, like, if... Lord, nothing ever happened to that girl.
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They're going to be like, 10 years later, Mariah's come back.
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Yeah, for sure. Some people, that's the fantasy that they're paying for.
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And a lot of people, the fact that they're selling, that's what, yeah, you're paying me to make you feel like we're together. Right. Even though you've never seen me in person, you're never going to see me in person. But I think with that, it's boundaries. And I don't even know.
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You may know the LLC, but when you look it up on the website, it's going to go to the P.O. box. Right. To this house. Right, exactly.
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Oh, yeah. Everything is a delayed post. Everything. Everything is a delayed post. Everything. There is this TikTok. It's this white man that, like, used to work for the government. And his job, what he does on TikTok is try to teach people how easy it is to be found. So people will be like, hey, come find me. And they'll just do this in their background. And he'll say, okay.
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I can tell by... I saw that street sign. I enhanced the image. Okay, that street, I can look how many times that street is in America. Okay, I also saw that there was a Dollar General. So now I need to find out how many times this street intersects with a street where there's a Dollar General. Oh, I saw that there was rocks here in construction. So now I get to look up construction zones.
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And then he can pinpoint exactly where you were standing on the corner. It's scary. It's scary.
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Yeah, she was like 31, 32. That's so interesting because we came up with the age like, we all know floppy disk. And, you know what I'm saying? Like, we all know that. And so I also remember the scare of the internet. Like, my mom was terrified of the internet. We used to have assemblies in school about your footprint on the internet. And we used to scare the shit out of people.
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And I think a lot of younger folks, they don't get that anymore because, like...
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And I remember people used to think that Google wasn't going to take off. And now Google is this huge entity. And so people aren't even taught that you are vulnerable.
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She was... She wasn't scamming him. He was paying. She was on OnlyFans. She was... filing her taxes every time we were here for that money. And he grew an attachment to her.
Pour Minds Podcast
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But would you consider a situation like that like a crime of passion? Because I think when I think about crimes of passion, I always think about like people in relationships. Yes, that's not a crime of passion.
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And they did something to the person because they felt some type of way like, but then I feel like it's no getting away from it because a crime of passion could be, okay, this person found out she was cheating on them. But then sometimes, even if you're honest with the person and you tell them, hey, look, this relationship no longer serves me. I don't want to be with you anymore.
Pour Minds Podcast
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Even in situations like that, people be snapping and wanting to kill you. So it's really not avoiding it.
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Really? And so they listen to other podcasts that represent them. Okay. I dare say we're one of the larger ones, but... Y'all are, for sure. But they definitely exist. There are some smaller ones that do cases that we haven't done yet that I still listen to them and use them as sources. So they exist. But I think everybody's style is different. Everybody's research is different.
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And crime of passions aren't always about love. Sometimes they're about hate. So a lot of times, things are categorized crimes of passion. When there's things like overkill.
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It could be a mother's boyfriend. It could be the daughter's boyfriend to the mother. And the fact that the mother was killed instead of stabbed in the heart once, she was stabbed twice. 87 times, that then becomes a crime of passion. And that also lets investigators know, okay, this is probably somebody that this person knows. It's probably not a random robbery gone wrong now.
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And so I think with crimes of passion, when it comes to, like, couples, it usually... it usually is something that hasn't been addressed over time. Like it's a gradual thing. Build up. Yeah, it's a gradual build up for sure.
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And she was the first person he was talking to.
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Because she was cared about. There probably were more victims of his stalking. Even if they weren't, like, any victims that he actually put his hands on, there's probably other women. There's probably plenty of restraining orders. Yes.
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And you see that snap sometimes because like mothers, when it comes to their children or if somebody's threatening to take their children away, that usually is like. people don't know how they're going to react behind their child until they're in that situation. Like, oh, you're about to take my child away from me? No, I'm about to take you out of this world. Right.
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Like I said, it's always something. And it's usually a gradual buildup because it's probably something like, you're not a good mother. You're not a good mother. You need to take care of your children more. Okay, I'm going to make sure that your children get taken away from you. Oh, I'm calling defects on you. Okay, now I got to kill you.
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It's that instant snap where... You probably could have thought logically, got a lawyer, petitioned the court. Right, right. But in your mind, it's like, it's me and these children against everyone. So you see it in any type of relationship.
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Some people just watch... For my man, and they report just for my man. Taz and I take a lot of time to deep dive and pull records and interview people if they're available, read books if they're available. So everybody's research and their style is different. Right.
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Especially if you are a licensed carrier. That is illegal.
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What's the time that I thought I was getting set up? Maybe when that girl was trying to figure out if I was dating him.
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But my thing is, did she really think you was going to tell her that I was talking to him? Like, bitch, Lex is my friend. She was like, Lex, tell me the truth. I don't care how long y'all be... Because, I mean, y'all was kind of cool, I guess, a little bit. But you had just met her. So it's like, why would you think Lex is going to tell you anything that I don't want you to know?
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I definitely felt like she was trying to set me up for sure. She was. Yes, because at the time, you know, I was single, so I was talking to, like, two different people. Right, right. And she went and asked the other dude that I was talking to if I was talking to the other dude.
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Like, she was really trying to get to the bottom of it. She really was.
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Like, I would say even... We've had to set the record straight once or twice.
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This is what I said. We have so much going on, and we do so much research. I promise you, I'm not calling the next podcast and saying, hey, what episode are you dropping this week? Right. Oh, yeah, we're thinking about dropping this one, too. And then, no shade, no tea, that's not a podcast that I listen to, because I listen to a lot of true crime as well.
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I said, I just, I was like, I pulled up their episode. Their episode's an hour. Ours is two. It took us three weeks to research this episode where it usually takes us a week to reach. I was like, leave me alone. And then we've had some times where fans of two different podcasts will try to put us against each other.
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So we've had somebody call us up and be like, so we heard that in your discussion group, your fans are saying this and you're allowing them to say this. And I was like, hold on, wait. We be going down. I promise I don't. I can't. I'm not finna police grown folks. Yeah. I promise I'm not. So, it's been drama, but... I can't say it's frequent.
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You didn't think to call me before. Here I sit, trying not to cry. Asking myself why you do this to me.
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I'm writing you this letter, and this is what I have to say.
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You said you told me lies when someone else was on your mind.
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Everybody tries to stay in their own lane. Right, right. How do y'all stop y'all selves from becoming paranoid? Because that's my thing with true crime. I feel like if I watch it all the time, I start to become paranoid. And I feel like people are just out to get me. Like, I don't even want to leave the house. Keep that strap on you, girl. Yeah. Keep that strap. Girl, but exactly.
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So it's like with y'all doing all of this research and watching so many documentaries, reading so many books all the time, how do you stop yourself from not being paranoid every time you leave your house? Keep that strap.
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Yeah. It would be different if it was fiction. But it's like, no, this shit really be happening to me. The scariest parts of the thing are the cases where they... unalive somebody random. Yeah. Like, I can keep myself out of situations. Like, I am going to make sure that my insurance policies are in people that I really trust.
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I'm going to make sure that my friends around me are people that I can really trust. If I feel like I'm getting into a heated situation, I'm going to probably just go to the car and get away from it. But the scary ones are definitely the people that you don't know.
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No, yeah, you right. Because I was definitely doing my research, and I was looking at y'all page, and you was talking about some lady. This is, like, from a year ago.
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She was talking about some lady named Willa or something like that. And she killed that old white man. And I'm like, she was really staking the place. Like, she was really preying on this man. She did not know him. She didn't know nothing about him. Found out he had a whole bunch of money, and then you just decided, I'm just going to kidnap this man and unalive him. Mm-hmm. But you know what?
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That man was paranoid. Exactly. And that man was like, nope, because he was a little old man. He was like, this woman is staking my house. Nobody was listening to him. And that man was trying to tell people. And it was because he had like a pen pal that he wrote to that he sent. Because you know old white men send emails to their pen pals.
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And they stopped getting their pen pal letters and they started... knowing to look for him. And he was saying, there's this lady that just keeps popping up in my house, and I don't know.
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Sometimes I think it's sheer, like, naivete. Like, I don't really know much about sports ball, so, like, I honestly didn't know that story as much, so I kind of went into it very curious. So, and that helps us have a different perspective.
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We have a couple of cases like that that are super popular that some I've heard of before, and then some of them I'm fresh to it, and I'm like, oh, my gosh, I'm so happy I have all of this information, and so I can consume it, and that week I'm...
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Right. Right. Like, if we told that case, I know I'd be like, and we all know that it was the brother. Right. And we'd go into it a little bit different. And everybody usually, like a lot of true crime cases or storytellers, black, white, indifferent, whatever, they usually start with, and we open our scene and it's a murder. Mm. Now we're going to go back.
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And we're like, no, no, no, let's start with her. Let's tell her entire lie.
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Before we get to the crime. So by the time we get to the crime, you're either like... She was set up from the start or it's like, this bitch really just decided. She had it made and threw it all away.