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Drew Burney

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
2458 total appearances

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SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

So in the late 60s, he actually started arguing the exact opposite, that actually there wasn't any such thing as like a stable personality that we could point to, and again, make those specific predictions.

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

Precisely because he was doing studies showing, I can't, this person's high and extraversion, I can't tell you if they're gonna speak up in this situation or not.

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

They just couldn't do it.

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

Came up over and over again.

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

William Fleeson was another researcher at this time who found that personalities seem to be more like a distribution.

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

There was a tendency, kind of a stable basin around which you would kind of float.

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

Exactly, exactly.

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

There's like a fabric around you that pulls you back into this well.

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

So if you're high in extroversion, yeah, generally you're high in extroversion, but that doesn't mean you're not introverted in certain situations either.

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

So kind of together, Michel came up with the idea of this if-then signatures, okay?

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

Yes, you have this kind of, not really set point, but distribution around which you float, like I said.

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

And then in certain situations, you change.

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

We've all experienced this, right?

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

The hats you wear or, you know, you're probably not the same person around your grandma as you are your best friend when you two are alone, obviously.

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

So we all know that experience, right?

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

The question then becomes then,

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

So which one of those is the real us?

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

Is that even the right question to ask?

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

You're high in openness, let's say, or you're introverted.

SOLVED with Mark Manson
How to Change Your Life, Solved

Where do you flip those scripts?