Dusty Slay

So I missed out on a lot of like summer hangs because my dad lived in a different town, not far away, but far enough away to where kids I went to school with would be like, why don't you come over to my house this weekend?

And I'm like, no, I can't.

I'm at my dad's.

At my dad's, yeah.

And then even in the school year, be one weekend with my mom, one weekend with my dad.

And then just this whole idea that you would choose between your mom and dad.

So I'm like, when I decided to have kids, I'm like, I never want my kids to have to go through that.

They should never have to choose –

who they're going to hang out with.

You know, Christmas, do I do Christmas?

Like even to this day as an adult, it still affects my life.

Of course.

Where when I go holidays, I go, am I going to spend it with my mom or with my dad?

And I've tried to bring them together.

They can get along just fine, but it's weird for me.

Well, you know, we didn't – we had taught – when me and my wife first started dating, I was like –

Like, not for having kids.

Yes.

And I even, like, kind of, like, talked to her about it early on.

Like, I don't want to have kids.