Dusty Slay

I didn't need to do it for 10.

A decade.

And I could have got started on things a lot sooner.

I could have had kids at 25 rather than, you know, 39.

Yeah.

I, you know, it is what it is.

So I don't really beat myself up, but I do wish that I could have got started sooner.

Yeah.

And I, that's what I would say.

I mean, it's like people, so many people are like, well, I want to live my life a little bit before, you know, I get locked down or whatever.

And I would say that, that is life.

Right.

And it's like, you know, the, the men around me, and I don't mean like my, my dad and I just mean men that I would work with that were older men were giving me such bad advice.

They might've thought it was good advice, but they would be talking about marriage and they're like, Oh, you're going to get, you know, you'll get married one day and it'll just be one woman for the rest of your life.

So just explore the field.

You know what I'm like?

Well, that's the worst advice you could have given.

Yeah.

Because it's,

You know, it's like there's a Ecclesiastes verse.