Elena

And even though Ralphine's attention was more or less dominated by the baby at the time, they even had a healthy sex life. Like it was a very normal, healthy sex life at first. Okay. But then things turned a little bit and things started making Ralphine uncomfortable. Like whenever they were at home, Jerry insisted that they both be nude.

Okay, that's strange. And also you have a child. Well, and that only stopped when Megan grew from an infant to a toddler. And Ralphine said it's not appropriate for us to be nude in front of our child. So it did stop. Okay. But he was not happy about it.

Okay, that's strange. And also you have a child. Well, and that only stopped when Megan grew from an infant to a toddler. And Ralphine said it's not appropriate for us to be nude in front of our child. So it did stop. Okay. But he was not happy about it.

Yeah. Because he also is, like, requiring it. Right. Like, it's not like they both made this decision together that they're just like, that's what we do.

Yeah. Because he also is, like, requiring it. Right. Like, it's not like they both made this decision together that they're just like, that's what we do.

Like, it's just, like, some people... When they're at home, they like to be naked, I guess.

Like, it's just, like, some people... When they're at home, they like to be naked, I guess.

No, this felt very much like it was him requiring it. Yeah. And she was probably happy to be like, okay, she's a toddler now. We need to stop.

No, this felt very much like it was him requiring it. Yeah. And she was probably happy to be like, okay, she's a toddler now. We need to stop.

Me too. Yeah. Well, there was also Jerry's constant need to photograph his wife while she was nude or while they were having sex.

Me too. Yeah. Well, there was also Jerry's constant need to photograph his wife while she was nude or while they were having sex.

The black and white images were something Jerry could develop himself at home because he didn't know how to do that. Yeah. She was like, that was fine, I guess. Like, whatever. That's in our house. He's developing them himself. But then he wanted to take color ones that had to be developed at a lab, which meant other people would see them. Yeah. And Jerry was like, no, it's fine. This is normal.

The black and white images were something Jerry could develop himself at home because he didn't know how to do that. Yeah. She was like, that was fine, I guess. Like, whatever. That's in our house. He's developing them himself. But then he wanted to take color ones that had to be developed at a lab, which meant other people would see them. Yeah. And Jerry was like, no, it's fine. This is normal.

No one's going to care about it. They're not even going to blink an eye. But she said she never felt comfortable about it. She didn't like it. Which is not consenting. Right. And she said she was also not comfortable with what he would have her do in the photos at times.

No one's going to care about it. They're not even going to blink an eye. But she said she never felt comfortable about it. She didn't like it. Which is not consenting. Right. And she said she was also not comfortable with what he would have her do in the photos at times.

Yeah, like there was times like she didn't mind like the casual shots around the house of them just like living their life. But she said sometimes he would insist that she pull a nylon stocking over her face or wear spiked high-heeled shoes. And she just, she said it made her uneasy sometimes.

Yeah, like there was times like she didn't mind like the casual shots around the house of them just like living their life. But she said sometimes he would insist that she pull a nylon stocking over her face or wear spiked high-heeled shoes. And she just, she said it made her uneasy sometimes.

It is not okay if your fetish is being forced on another person. Exactly. You need to be in an agreeing situation where that person agrees and is comfortable with engaging in your fetish.

It is not okay if your fetish is being forced on another person. Exactly. You need to be in an agreeing situation where that person agrees and is comfortable with engaging in your fetish.

So she's like really being forced into it. And there's a power dynamic there too because he's so much older.