Elisa Donovan

So it'll be subtle things like and, you know, for people listening, they're like, oh, not everyone's bad as a narcissist.

And, you know, it's bigger than that.

It's more than that.

So so it's it's this person will deliberately hide your cell phone.

make you look for it, make you think you've lost it.

You're going crazy or, or hide your keys or hit your car and then blame you.

I mean, all these little things.

So these things start to happen or delete something from your, from your calendar and you think you have plans.

You swore you had plans, but then you look and you're like, wait, I have no plans.

And

Little things like that.

So you start to doubt your sanity, which then turns into, are you all right?

Maybe you should see a psychologist.

I'm really worried about you.

You seem so stressed out.

Like maybe you should not go out as much.

Maybe you should quit your job or let me take charge of this.

And so before you know it, you start to believe this because here you have this caring person.

And they sound reasonable.

Yeah.