Elizabeth

And I think I definitely in my past had a lot of anxiety and overthinking when it comes to relationships and kind of mulling over everything.

And with him, I just kind of dove into it just to kind of see what would happen.

And it's been...

so wonderful.

And I'm so glad I did, even if he's not the one, because I've learned so much and, you know, experienced great things, but it's just, I don't know.

I think that that's also something I've thought about and I'm not totally sure.

Yes.

Yes.

And I was just thinking about that the other day because I don't even know what we were talking about, but it was something a little more like philosophical and worldview-y and like people in the world and how we exist in the world and that kind of stuff.

And

As we were talking about it, I was like, wow, we can't even have a conversation.

It's like we're speaking different languages.

We're not even coming at this from anywhere that's similar.

And I guess my question on that would be, I feel like another thing that I worry about with myself is I think sometimes I have this fantasy of this perfect relationship.

marriage and this perfect guy in my head.

And I know that realistically, nobody's perfect.

And so I guess like, where's the line between accepting that somebody isn't exactly what you would have drawn up maybe and

where is it just not right, you know?

Yeah.

Yeah, totally.