Ella Risbridger

Is to know yourself.

Yes.

And I also, yeah, I think she spent a lot of time thinking about her own body in a way that is not always conducive to being good at sex, but certainly she knows what feels good.

Much like Adrienne says on the yoga videos, find what feels good, Monica.

Oh my God.

It's the one part of her life.

Here you go.

It's the one part of her life where she's always been able to experience joy.

There you go.

Like without compensated shame.

Now we have it.

Without thinking about like, this is, you know, thinking to Monica's early phrase into masturbation and not where I thought this Christmas episode was going.

But nonetheless, I believe she's, you know,

Reading flowers in the attic and reaching for a pillow.

I actually think it's important because she has to have some pleasures that aren't just being neurotic.

I don't know how good a sex Joey is.

He's super handsome.

And people like going home with him, but they don't go home with him that much.

Like they go home with him one time and they're like, what a fantastic time.

Maybe, and I understand that some of that's because he doesn't call them back.