Ella

doing around I found out that it was her husband's beer can that he forgot to throw out which made it so much worse because I'm like first of all the beer can came from your husband and then your son threw it at my son's face which like if it was like an inch over it could have hit him in the eye I'm like

panicking, screaming, crying in my head.

And then I just was like, I have to go.

Like I have to go to work.

I have to leave.

And I left the birthday party.

I waited four days.

And then I sent her a text saying, I don't think that our son should be anywhere near each other anymore.

I'm so sorry that I feel this way, but like, I've tried to talk to you about this.

No behaviors ever corrected or better.

I'm sorry.

If I don't want this to seem like I'm coming at you.

I don't know.

I sent a long text and then my partner was like, that was, you did too much.

And

I think the text that you sent was probably the damage that you created.

I was like, oh, no.

Yeah, that is exactly what I needed to hear.

Like I needed to hear what I did wrong, like where I could have done this better, but you're totally right.

Like, and I've been drafting the message to her for so long.