Elle Bee

Really?

Yeah.

Yeah.

He was like, I was very closed off the first few years of our marriage.

I wasn't like,

very lovey-dovey i wasn't very emotional and i was very much like if it works it works if not divorce you know like yeah right that's why i took like that's why i accepted what i thought was a proposal so soon because i was like well if it doesn't matter just get a divorce you know like move on with life and you think that was because you your mom had yeah yeah so your idea that's kind of like yeah yeah right right yeah um so yeah later on he like and i was like dude

yeah yeah you're right you know and like i have trauma with how i raise my kids because like my mom was a yeller you know what i'm saying like she was a yeller she like she would yell at us and so i'm very much anti against yelling you know like if and sean my husband is like the best guy ever but he's former military so he's very yeah yeah yeah and like if he starts getting loud i'm like stop

It's your PTSD.

You're kind of like, oh, triggering.

Well, you know, about a year ago, I started saying like, it's a trigger for me.

I think you're yelling.

It's a trigger for me.

So I automatically, and he would look at it as I'm trying to like micromanage his parenting.

So we got to write issues over it.

Oh, interesting.

Oh, absolutely.

and like say things, but he would be joking.

But in my mind, I'm like, that's real.

That's how you really feel.

That's how you think of me.