Elle Bee

Like, but I was sexually assaulted, sexually abused, whatever you want to say it growing up.

So like, and so me and Sean are very like,

This is where the trauma comes in now about how I'm too much of a helicopter mom probably.

I mean, all these things, like my mom getting married multiple times was trauma to me thinking, oh, I could get married right now, get a divorce later on, whatever.

My mom being a yeller is my trauma that leads me to, like, micromanage Sean and not wanting –

any loud voices in the house and then me being assaulted as a sexually assaulted as a kid is my trauma being helicopter mom and not letting my kids go stay with friends you know right yeah did you ever get therapy for that did you ever like i mean did you ever kind of like dive into that at all me and my husband did therapy for a little bit but it was just like kind of marriage counseling therapy okay so not like personal but yeah i've never had therapy for for that no interesting is there a reason why you just like just busy with six kids yeah no i get it yeah i mean i

I would probably get, I'm sure I would get something out of it, but yeah.

And I don't, thankfully I don't feel like it affects me on my day to day level.

I do have the weird things of like, you know, doors got to stay open, things of that nature.

Um,

Because I don't think people don't notice, too, that a lot of the times it can be kid on kid or kid with.

Right.

Right.

Absolutely.

Yeah.

So it's like it's not only like adults or older people.

That's what it was for me.

Right.

I was a kid and he was just a few years older than me.

Yeah.