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Emily Esfahani Smith

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
286 total appearances

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TED Talks Daily
Why pursuing happiness makes you ... less happy | Emily Esfahani Smith

The classic example of this is Viktor Frankl, the Jewish Holocaust survivor from Vienna, who wrote Man's Search for Meaning, a beautiful book.

TED Talks Daily
Why pursuing happiness makes you ... less happy | Emily Esfahani Smith

And it's about his experiences in the concentration camps during the Holocaust.

TED Talks Daily
Why pursuing happiness makes you ... less happy | Emily Esfahani Smith

And he writes about how the inmates in the camps had lost everything.

TED Talks Daily
Why pursuing happiness makes you ... less happy | Emily Esfahani Smith

They'd lost their families, they'd lost their homes, their freedom.

TED Talks Daily
Why pursuing happiness makes you ... less happy | Emily Esfahani Smith

And so understandably, a lot of them decided that there was nothing else left to live for.

TED Talks Daily
Why pursuing happiness makes you ... less happy | Emily Esfahani Smith

But there were some people

TED Talks Daily
Why pursuing happiness makes you ... less happy | Emily Esfahani Smith

who continued to believe that there was some purpose or meaning driving their lives, like being reunited with their children who were living, you know, elsewhere in safety.

TED Talks Daily
Why pursuing happiness makes you ... less happy | Emily Esfahani Smith

And those who were able to hold on to meaning were more resilient in the face of suffering and even more, Frankel writes, apt to survive given the general degradations of camp life.

TED Talks Daily
Why pursuing happiness makes you ... less happy | Emily Esfahani Smith

And we know this, you know, from the research as well that, you know,

TED Talks Daily
Why pursuing happiness makes you ... less happy | Emily Esfahani Smith

when researchers look at what's predicting this rising tide of despair all through the world, rises in depression, loneliness, et cetera, it's not a lack of happiness in people's lives, it's a lack of meaning.

TED Talks Daily
Why pursuing happiness makes you ... less happy | Emily Esfahani Smith

And people who have a sense of meaning in life are more resilient to suffering, do experience greater longevity.

TED Talks Daily
Why pursuing happiness makes you ... less happy | Emily Esfahani Smith

So there's something really powerful about meaning that kind of goes deeper for us.

TED Talks Daily
Why pursuing happiness makes you ... less happy | Emily Esfahani Smith

Yes, I'll take the example of the pandemic, because that is something, obviously, that we all went through.

TED Talks Daily
Why pursuing happiness makes you ... less happy | Emily Esfahani Smith

It was several years long.

TED Talks Daily
Why pursuing happiness makes you ... less happy | Emily Esfahani Smith

We saw a lot of people in major transitions losing their jobs, deciding to leave work, or suddenly being plunged into an environment where they were around their children all the time and tried to do work, just navigating a lot.

TED Talks Daily
Why pursuing happiness makes you ... less happy | Emily Esfahani Smith

Or maybe the work that they did was not possible anymore because of what was happening.

TED Talks Daily
Why pursuing happiness makes you ... less happy | Emily Esfahani Smith

And so that source of meaning was gone.

TED Talks Daily
Why pursuing happiness makes you ... less happy | Emily Esfahani Smith

And so what the pandemic was basically for a lot of people was a life transition.

TED Talks Daily
Why pursuing happiness makes you ... less happy | Emily Esfahani Smith

And we all experience life transitions.

TED Talks Daily
Why pursuing happiness makes you ... less happy | Emily Esfahani Smith

Personally, ever since I wrote my book in 2017,