Emily Fortner
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What she's going through out of school is affecting you out of school. I can't imagine what that would be like. I know when I was going through some dark stuff in high school, as a freshman I rebelled a lot. So I was always out of school or in school suspension no matter what. I ended up getting kicked out of school because I had nobody, no adult in or out of school at that point.
Loppupuolella ja loppupuolella minulla ei ollut mikÀÀn vanhempi, joka oli takana. Sitten muuttuin kouluun ja liittyi opettajaan. Tarkoitan, ettÀ hÀn ei pystynyt tekemÀÀn mitÀÀn enemmÀn kuin aiemmin, koska opettaja ei pysty kÀsittelemÀÀn sitÀ.
Mutta tietysti hÀn tietÀÀ, koska hÀnellÀ oli omat lapsensa, ettÀ mitÀ minÀ menin eteenpÀin ei ollut normaalia, se ei ollut oikeaa, se ei ollut oikeaa, mutta hÀnellÀ ei ollut mitÀÀn, mitÀ hÀn voi tehdÀ siitÀ. Olen ystÀvÀllinen heidÀn Facebookissa nyt ja toivon, ettÀ se antaa hÀneltÀ jotain ympÀristöÀ, ettÀ minÀ olen oikeassa, mutta
Mietin hÀnet edelleen ja olen 33-vuotias, joten pieniÀ liikkeitÀ, joita sinulla on opiskelijoilla, erityisesti koulujen aikana, he katsovat takaisin ja sanovat, ettÀ se opettaja oli minun takani. Se on erittÀin erityistÀ.
You know the experience or having the kid or if you have them all four years. I don't know. Do you have kids that like from freshman year all the way to senior? I have kids that I will. That has to be even harder because then you're like, OK, well, what am I going to how am I going to keep up with her or him and know that she's OK all summer? Yeah. Or long weekends or breaks or whatever. So like.
you do have that kind of impact on and um it is and vice versa it sounds like yeah like it sounds like students can have the same impact on oh absolutely the adult the teacher absolutely absolutely when you become a teacher do you have to sign some kind of like code of conduct that you won't
I don't know that I like physically signed it, but you are agreeing to contract. And I'm not saying that you did that. I'm asking because when you know that someone is facing challenges, but in Delaware all teachers are mandated reporters. So you have to report abuse or if someone's in danger. But if they're not in danger, but you know they're facing challenges and you want to be there for them,
All the way up until high school ever made a connection with me or my mom. I can't think of one single teacher outside of the one from high school that I just really connected with.
My mom trained me to never let anyone know. If something happened, my mom would frequently come into the school to pick me up either intoxicated, drunk, whatever, high. It was, you lie for me. It was, did anyone come talk to you? If they do, this is what you say. We're not going to get the free lunch, you're going to starve kind of deal. It was like that. I just worry about the kids that...
I just don't find the connection in a teacher because I mean every child deserves at least one adult that they can open up to and I just feel like that's got to be challenging for the teacher as well because it's like then you again take it home.
Jos olet pysynyt 6 kuukauden odotuksessa psykiatrista tai olet rauhoittamassa ympÀristöjen ympÀristöjen ympÀristöjen ympÀristöjen ympÀristöjen ympÀristöjen ympÀristöjen ympÀristöjen ympÀristöjen ympÀristöjen ympÀristöjen ympÀristöjen ympÀristöjen ympÀristöjen ympÀristöjen
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I mean, honestly, they'll remember that forever, so it's kind of nice. But I don't know if I would want my mom... I definitely would want Susie, but if I had a good mom, I'd want her to be at my school. I would love the privileges. I wouldn't want Susie to show up to my school at all. You know what I mean? I think when I... I don't think if... Like, when I was in high school, I don't think I would want my parents working there either, but... I mean, my mom was always very pretty and, like, cool when she's sober, but, like, she'd probably show up to teach these kids fucked up. Yeah.
TÀmÀ voi olla hauska kokemus. Tutkijat ovat ihmisiÀ. He ovat, mutta et ajattele, kun me olimme, ajattelin, ettÀ olin niin pysyvÀllÀ jollain tavalla, koska en ollut komputeilla, en saanut telefonia, kun olin 16-vuotias, joten jokainen...
Kiitos. Kiitos.
I was like an animal in a cage at a museum or at a zoo. It was so weird. But now with social media, you see your teachers everywhere. The amount of times I've been with you in public and former students come up to you, I'm like, you couldn't convince me to do that to one of my teachers growing up. I also was never close with them either. So I feel like it might be different. Yeah, it's definitely...
To see a student at the bar. In some ways you're like, this is really cool, but in other ways you're probably like, this ages me. Yeah, I was like, oh my gosh. Can we talk about the fact that you had to bartend while you've been a teacher and you have two master's degrees? Yeah. Obviously I'm not here to shit on the school district, because my kids go to that school district, but it is really, really upsetting when, as your friend, I see you with your four kids, and then...
You're also teaching, you have two master's degrees, and then you are bartending on the side, and you work for killers sometimes. So it's upsetting for me, because what the fuck? And it's no one person's fault, but it is, I can imagine, really draining, because you're like, okay, now I have the weekends, but I have to go bartend. Yeah, it is definitely, it's been a challenge, you know, thinking about