Emily Miller
Appearances
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
Yeah, I think it's been raised to 45% now. Oh my, wait, wait. If you earn a certain amount, you'll get taxed 45%.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
And at the time... Can I just say on the receiving end of that, it was crazy for me because I thought he was like this confident guy, like, you know, didn't care about anything. And then to see him just switch, it was... I've never been with a guy who was so, like, emotional. And I honestly didn't think guys had feelings at the time. So it was crazy for me to...
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
I guess it's just like a bunch of hot singles swanning around in bikinis. But you're not allowed to have sex or kiss or they call it heavy petting. I thought that was funny.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
honestly i feel like i can handle heart say that i'm very lucky and that i haven't had that like i feel like my followers are so loyal that i've not actually experienced like a crash in anything like a little bit but it's been like a gradual thing so it's like whatever but i have never taken anything like too seriously like i am very well aware that i have a sell-by date so i'm always expecting to just you know one day be irrelevant and i'm absolutely fine with that that's not gonna happen
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
Not an American thing.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
Yeah, and see, if I was a housewife and had the time, I would do that for you.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
In the kitchen.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
Yeah, we had an animal.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
Oh, I've seen that video recently.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
Yeah. I mean. We got a big fridge. Ours is like. Wow. Who knows as long as you? It's bigger than me, for sure. Way taller than me.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
I can get inside of it if I need to. So when it gets to 40, 50 degrees, whatever.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
I saw tank tops. Today? Yesterday.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
Yeah, who's normally in t-shirts?
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. That's why it's clean. Yeah, I feel like.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
Oh, yeah, people aren't allowed to flick their fag butts anymore, are they? It's a cigarette.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
I knew that. That means it's a very dry cigarette. No, we call them fags. It's a fag butt. So if a woman had bought a fag, Really? I knew that.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
Absolutely not. Not really. Yeah, it's actually pretty wild in the UK.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
So he'll have food like faggots and sausages, right? Yeah, great. Really nice food, faggots. So faggots, you can go and eat faggots.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
Yeah, faggots and peas.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
Come on. I was a good girl. I was 16. I waited till I was legal.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
um so like but then i think but do you say bloody like that's our like yes like oh bloody hell i learned that from reading harry potter as a kid yeah that's hilarious if kids were saying hell like that would be like really that's a no-no for you guys yeah oh nice yeah what are you saying what
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
You ever had to do that?
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
Yeah.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
You literally had to do that?
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
His parents were pretty strict.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
18.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
Oh, you're good. I didn't touch it.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
It rolled. Sorry, sorry, sorry.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
so that's not legal uh no yeah he's a criminal so we went on the show obviously as these kind of like loose wild singles yeah and you thought it was like a partying show yeah we initially yeah like they hype you up and say listen you go wild like get with whoever so for the first few days like we were under the impression that's what we were doing yeah um so when we finally formed connection like me and you because we as soon as I saw him I was like you're mine like I just knew it and then I was like right I'm ready to do the deed I want to do it with you
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
Do a Welsh impression. Do a Welsh impression.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
Let me give some context. We was on holiday for his birthday, took him away. And I planned, I was going to tell him, I found out just before we were flying. So I was like, printed off some pictures to like, for his birthday and all, it's pinning pictures around just for about a year together. And so I had this picture of the pregnancy test, I was going to pin it somewhere so he could see it.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
And then just something in me was like, no, that doesn't seem right. I'm just not going to do it that way. So I took the picture down. I didn't have the picture up. And I kind of just waited and kind of brewed on it. And I let him have his birthday. So I told him the next day at dinner. And we were getting some wine. He was like, oh, let's get a bottle of wine.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
I was like, I don't really fancy a drink. And immediately that rang alarm bells for him because I love a glass of wine. And he was a bit like, OK, are you feeling OK? And I was like, yeah, I just need to go to the toilet. I went to the toilet. I was in the mirror. I was like, right, Emily, why are you so nervous? Just compose yourself. Like, it's fine. I don't know why I was so nervous.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
It's just something in me was like, I just knew he was going to like, just, I don't know. Cause it's such a shock, I think. So then I came back out and I just said straight away, I was like, Cam, I'm pregnant. And he went, I think you spat your drink out, didn't you? Yeah. You were like, what?
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
With curtains separating you.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
i was like i'm pregnant and i think we ended up leaving the restaurant didn't we yeah we did it's like i think more because i was upset because i was so excited to tell him and being pregnant i was so excited being pregnant again because what happened last time that kind of you just sort of shut it all down for me didn't you and i hate i hate that i reacted that way but in a weird way i needed to in order to like be okay with everything and like by the time i really
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
Anyway, that's when Lana, the robot, comes out to ruin all the fun. Basically, the premise of the show is, like, to abstain.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
I know, you were excited about the pregnancy as well.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
Oh, yeah. I was ready to leave him. I was like, fine, I'm going to do this on my own. Are you kidding? Yeah, yeah, yeah. I was like, I'm doing this on my own. I'm keeping the baby, whether you like it or not.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
Fine, I'll do it on my own.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
No. It's not really a thing here. No.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
like we're not even engaged and I want another baby before like I care more about that side than getting married so people always like in our comments oh when are you going to put a ring on it and I'm like what you don't know is obviously you do want like you do want a ring but like Em's actually not that bothered she wants to have kids and be a mum yeah like I know we're in a you know loving committed relationship so like I think because my parents were never married and you come from you know divorced parents a lot of divorces huh a lot of divorces how many yeah it's just a lot of like separation in the families
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
There's just no rush for us. You know, we're in it for the long run. So it's just kind of like.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
They're together. Oh, they're not together anymore.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
Yeah. Yeah. But then a lot of them also had separated. So it was never like a taboo. Like, I mean, it wasn't even a question that friends asked. Like, I think they just expected that they were married. So, yeah, I think, you know, it was never really an issue or even spoken about, to be honest.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
You say, no. I hear you on the phone. You go, my partner.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
Like, oh, like, shut up.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
Yeah, no.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
there's two people that you know have to decide you have to be on the same page kind of yeah but no i love being pregnant i had you know no sickness like no aches or pains nothing like my skin was glowing my skin has never been so clear like my hair was thick and shiny and long like I looked great. Honestly. And then I fell apart. I fell apart after. So.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
Yeah.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
I know. My boobs. Oh my God. I've never had boobs before. And they were like this.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
Yeah, he had to go see a doctor because he's blue balls.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
Christ. Oh yeah. Was that not allowed? No.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
No, no, do you know what?
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
I was expecting chips.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
Or fat ones. Fat ones, yeah.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
If that's a customer service thing, it might be. It's probably because we're always in a rush in this country. So they're probably like thinking that you just know just to get it all out there. You would have discussed what you both wanted before and you would have just gone straight for the order.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
You'll do it for the both of us.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
Well, no, we split the rent half and half. Yeah, we split the rent. And because in the past I've paid for more stuff, like with living situations, in this house he said that he was going to pay the bills. Now, he hasn't paid any of the bills yet. Now it's come round to it. He's like, oh, Em, you charge your car in the house, so do you not think you should contribute to the bills?
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
I'm like, no, actually. The bills come through.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
He's a criminal.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
yeah um yeah that's i mean it was awful to be honest i cannot everything that went wrong sorry went wrong yeah um i was bleeding as soon as i went into labor my i don't know what you call it we call like a mucus plug is that what you call it yeah so that went but then the blood just wouldn't stop just like naturally naturally yeah they tried to induce me but i was like no like i really want to do like sort of
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
Do you all think you want to have a big family?
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
like hypnobirthing type vibe. Like I wanted to do it all natural. Like I was in control. Like I'd done so much reading, spoke to so many experts. I was like, I've got this. Um, but yeah, so when my mucus plug went, I just didn't stop bleeding. Was it at 40 weeks or? I was bang on. Yeah. Bang on 40 weeks. Um, it was actually the day before my due date. Okay. Or a couple of days.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
It must've been a couple of days.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
A couple of days. Yeah. Um, so I got taken into hospital. Um, And even though I wasn't dilated enough, because I was bleeding so much, they were like, right, you need to go down into theatre. And I was on a monitor for a... Into what? Theatre.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
It's like... So, like, if I wasn't at risk, you'd be, like, in a communal area with other pregnant women in labour. You're labouring with other women here? Yeah.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
oh my gosh yeah you're just in one big room with curtains separating you and you can hear everything everything yeah are people like screaming and scared it's scary yeah yeah you hear everything well in the hold in the holding bit first there was people yeah i don't know what to call it that's what you would call it yeah there were people laboring in there yeah so but you can't like hear anything like you're in your own room
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
where you are yeah yeah i know that's i know it's the difference with nhs well you're just free so the theater is where like high risk goes sorry what yeah yeah yeah so yeah if you're at low risk you're in the communal area but high risk you're in your own private bits because you need to be monitored like there's a nurse on you monitoring you the whole time so i had a thing around baby's heart and a thing around my heart
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
Um, and then it's kind of like, it's a bit of a blur now, but hours have gone by and then by this point they were like, right, you're actually, you're good to go. You can do your water birth like you wanted to do. Um, so I was like, great.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
So I got wheeled into that unit and then they checked me again when I was in there and the amount of blood that she pulled out, she was like, no, no, no, you need to go back that way. Um, so I had to get taken back. So I was like, for fuck's sake, like, you know, your emotions are like this thinking,
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
what's going on um and hours and hours have gone by and i finally caved into gas and air um and i was sucking on it like no tomorrow i was like babe i don't think this is working she said to me it's not working i was like let me test it i did i was like
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
Yeah, I don't know if, did you do gas and air?
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
That's not really as big of a thing. They don't even offer that.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
I was like, it's not working.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
Yeah, but for me it wasn't touching the sides. I was in so much pain. Yeah, it's so much pain. Yeah, so much pain. I had no idea how painful it was.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
Oh, I'm going to sit him down and watch it.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
I've always been happy with having two kids, but you've always wanted three.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
more yeah more 36 hours in total yeah so but at some point in them 36 hours i was like i can't do this anymore i can't i like i need i need an epidural i can't do it the nurse kept checking me and i wasn't dilating i think i was only like three four four centimeters at this point um bear in mind you need to get to 10 obviously i know you know that but just anyone listening um
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
And my waters still hadn't broken either at this point. And I was refusing everything. They're like, do you want us to break your waters? I was like, no, I don't want you to touch me. I don't want to do it all on my own. But then again, it got to the point where I needed an epidural. I genuinely thought I was going to die. That is the pain I was in.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
Thinking back, people have been speaking to other mums. I don't think it was normal, the pain I was experiencing.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
So apparently it's not a myth. It's not.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
Yeah, and as I said, I wasn't dialing, so there was no room for him to go. So it was kind of like all these contractions were happening, and it was just getting more and more stuck. Probably maybe fit what happened to you, the whole him getting stuck thing.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
but yeah first epidural I had as many top ups as I could and it just wasn't working I was in still so much pain to the point where I was begging them to give me another one I was begging I was crying I was like I need and then The girl that was in the ward with me, she was, I think, quite new. So she was doing everything by the book. And she was like, I can't, I can't.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
He was walking around the whole villa all the time like an old man.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
I was like, you don't understand. Like, I need... And then, luckily, another nurse came in. I just grabbed her. I was like, you need to help me. Like, you need to help me. So she was like, okay, I'll go and get you some help. And by this point, all the doctors and nurses were doing a changeover because it was a new day. So I had to wait for all my notes to be handed over, everyone to...
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
do a new shift whatever they were doing and i think eventually this is about hour this must be an hour 34 now yeah yeah and eventually i got a second epidural and i think they dosed me up to the max i think i've got a spinal block at the same time as well but the first time in the whole time that she was chilled yeah the first i could breathe like i could breathe i could have a sip of tea like i could eat something what was that whole first part like for you
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
i mean i don't like seeing you pain in general but that much pain it was just yeah it was horrible i mean that's why i remember so specifically that's one time i was just looking up at the ceiling like i was actually thinking i'm actually gonna die and like i could see you were looking at me and like the tears just streaming on my face like i can't actually i didn't think i could do it i honestly can't get emotional
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
Yeah, I didn't think I could do it. So it was this point where the nurse was like, Emily, you need to think about a plan B here because this baby's not going to come. And I was like, there's no way I'm having a C-section. That was not any... All the books I was reading, I'd always get past C-section. I was like, there's no way I'm going to have a C-section. I'm going to boss this.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
But she was like, Emily, you're going to have to. And I was so... I asked her to leave and we spoke about it. My mum was there as well and was also speaking about it. And the main thing, obviously, was just getting Reggie out safe and sound. So, obviously, I did it. So she came in with all the paperwork. I had to sign my life away, like you do.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
And, yeah, next thing you know, I'm being wheeled into theatre, another theatre room. And, God, it's not over there, guys, because that's when I had a panic attack. Fuck!
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
I was just I think I was so just in the operating room yeah I was so exhausted so drugged up like I just was out of it and they couldn't operate on me because I was panicking so much like I think they're like Emily you need to stop you need to stop shaking you need to stop stop breathing because I was like
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
Not Viagra?
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
Well, no, that's pretty much it. Within 10 minutes of that, baby was born. He was born on his due date. So one in the morning on his due date. That's so rare. So after all of that, I was like, oh, my God. Then by the time he got put on me, I was just so out of it. I said, baby. I was like, no. I was still shaking uncontrollably. I was like, baby, you need to take him off me. I'm going to hurt him.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
So, but yeah, it was just, and then it was just emotional. I think I was throwing up, wasn't I?
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
The baby's in the room with you. Yeah, yeah. And bear in mind, I'm now wheeled back in the communal area of all the other new mums. I've just had major surgery. Mm-hmm.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
like you know no i could not have done that and they say yeah his visiting hours are 10 till 6 and i literally i was like you would you're gonna have to physically remove me from this hospital i'm not i'm not leaving as well i stayed on i slept on the floor on this rock hard floor i'm freezing cold as well yeah and then and it got to about 5 a.m i looked he's still there i was like babe just get in the bed just get in the bed in this single bed like this oh so you'd stayed
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
everywhere no no you don't understand i was a proper karen because my baby was so drugged up and all the drugs they were giving me he was so docile he didn't make a sound really and then there were all these babies taking it in turns to cry cry cry throughout the night and i obviously i'm knackered i haven't slept in days haven't eaten and i'm just like will you shut your babies up
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
Okay, well, I would happily be pregnant again right now.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
I was like, I'm getting so pissed off. And that's when they were like, you need to stay the night. I was like, you're going to argue. I would have been keeping you up. Right?
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
But then at least you were in your own private room, you know?
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
Oh yeah, I did, didn't I? Yeah, because I wasn't passing any urine.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
Oh my God. That's the first thing they do to you. I even had to have pessary.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
Because I wasn't pooing and I was scared that I was going to poo when I was giving birth. They put two huge things on me. She had the lot, honestly. Yeah, and I was trying to go to the toilet in between contractions. Oh my God. What was your postpartum at least period? Better? Oh, it's great. Day two, I was doing the laundry.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
Yeah, but he doesn't know how to work the washing machine.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
Don't you dare, Ed. Don't you dare air my dirty laundry.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
Yeah, but they didn't do anything.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
Like he, he fucked up a couple of times on the show, but I was just like, that's okay. I'm here whenever you're ready. Like, that's fine.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
Well, for second baby, you guys will be so prepared.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
Thank God for TikTok, right? Honestly, thank God. I don't know what I would have done without that.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
Yeah, yeah. First meal, here's a bolognese. Yeah.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
Too much. You were a problem.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
Oh, my God. And this is what I was going to say about the breastfeeding thing. Oh, yeah, that was... So obviously I was so looking forward to breastfeeding and I loved it whilst I did it, but he just wasn't latching properly and he was throwing up a lot. And we knew he had colic and reflux, but this just wasn't normal.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
And we took him to a specialist and they said, do you know your baby's tongue, lip and cheek tied? I went, pardon? I was like, no, no, no. The midwife checked him at the hospital and she said he was fine. She was like, no, no, he's severely tongue tied. I'm just like, this could have all been prevented. Had they just done their checks properly. But there's such a common problem.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
I don't know about America, but in the UK, it's such a common problem. They just misdiagnose things. They just look past everything.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
Yeah, so it was painful for me. And poor Reggie. He was taking in so much air because he couldn't...
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
latch properly he was just using it as a dummy really yeah he wasn't taking anything in so then he cried he's hungry but hang on you've just been feeding for like 20 minutes so it was really really difficult to know that was a stressful period that yeah so the the guy because luckily he was still only a few weeks out no six weeks at this point yeah six weeks old um laser lasered it all off i don't know how you do it in america but in here they just laser laser it all off and he didn't even he didn't move it didn't move yeah it's crazy screen and just
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
Yeah. Wow. But that definitely solved a lot of problems. But by that point, he was still having issues. And then it turns out he's got a dairy intolerance. And did you know there's dairy in your breast milk? Because I didn't.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
i felt like yeah yeah oh my god right well i can't imagine you if he wasn't getting the milk out and so i was having to soothe him pump with the other one and then because that wasn't enough coming out to have to then formula feed him like it was just like it was like a triple triple system yeah yeah exactly so for so long it was just like a triple thing all the time we were just like
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
I still am. The thing is, being a mom, you're just like superwoman. You just honestly forget about all the pain and the shit. Like, you just do. Like, we're built that way. We're designed to forget about it.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
Like, all over you. Yeah, all over. Everywhere. The walls. Oh, my God. It's been over our walls multiple times, hasn't it? But, yeah, you're just designed to forget about it. So... I guess that's why. And I guess because the good outweighs the bad like so much. So, yeah.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
Yeah. Oh, the scrunchie.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
yeah well i mean you and all my uh boys in my family've got size 11 feet so there's no way that he's not gonna have big feet he's very big limbs he is he's nine months but he fits in 12 months now like yeah she's got really long legs
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
Yeah, mine's not as big. I've got two brothers. My mum and dad have always fostered as well, so there's always like... No way. That's really cool. Yeah, I've never met anyone else that fosters, and his mum fosters, and my mum fosters. No way. Yeah. That's awesome.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
No. Really?
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
Yeah, it was intense. No, there were some great times, there were some great times, but it's a lot of effort. And there's, you know, the kids...
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
definitely here like a lot of them don't want to be helped you know they're kind of been dragged away from their home yeah you know they don't want to be there so you know they make life very difficult you know we've had a lot of things stolen like you know in the past they've abused like you know lashed out my mum and dad uh police around all the time so it's just like
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
Yeah. Being around. Yeah. Yeah. Like I said, there were some great times, you know, but yeah. Do y'all think you want to have a big family too?
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
Yeah. Well, I've always been happy with the thought of having two kids, but you've always wanted three.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
Three and a dog, yeah.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
Well, yeah, just ask them when, do you think? I need answers.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
No, well, I would happily be pregnant again right now. Like, definitely this year. And we did actually agree that after Reggie's first birthday that we would start trying.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
We did agree. We did. But... Sometimes they get cold feet. Yeah. And I feel like we're not going to put pressure on it. If it happens, it happens. But otherwise, I think we are going to hold off until maybe the year after. Yeah. Wait, I'm getting so confused.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
And I think for me, I am now focusing on getting hot this summer. I want like a milf body. So that's what I'm talking about.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
So COVID just hit. So it was in our first year of that. And I was like, get me out of this country. And then they messaged me for the show. And I just thought, why the hell not? Like, okay. Didn't think anything of it. Didn't think I'd get anywhere near to like going on.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
And then they just kind of, because we couldn't meet in person because of COVID, so we just kept having Zooms and they kept wanting to speak to me again. I was like, it's really weird. Why do they keep wanting to speak to me? I had like 4,000 or 5,000 followers, like nothing. And then, yeah, next thing you know, they said, right, pack your things, you're off. I was like, mum, I'm going, see ya.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
And I had no expectations. I honestly had, really had no idea what I was letting myself into, to be honest. I was honestly just going for a good time.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
you're very it was very much like live in the moment doesn't doesn't think things through too much i'm like the forward thinker and just like yeah it'd be fun let's go yeah that's literally was my yeah that was literally mine what did friends and family think about the show or like you going on my brothers initially were like oh for god's sake emily like this is just typically typical you like embarrassing us like all of this but in hindsight actually now
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
Instead of Lion King, we're going to watch Too Hot to Handle. He had to go see a doctor. Wait, I just heard that was fake.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
off the back of it it's actually brought me and my family all closer I think it's before the show I was kind of like I was in a dead-end job like living for the weekends not really having much going for myself um had no like aspirations or anything so yeah now I'm like successful and got my together
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
Oh, I'm going to sit him down and watch it.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
Yeah, that's going to be... Instead of Lion King, we're going to watch Too Hot to Handle.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
I love... I often watch it back. I love it.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
It's fine. Whatever.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
no no okay all right because i wouldn't want to watch that would you want to watch your mom and dad no would you want to watch your dad in the shower yeah no you wouldn't i wouldn't but i mean you can't actually see anything no you can't see anything it's obviously very big cameras in the shower in the toilets yeah cameras everywhere yeah how so some some editors are seeing you and your privates all the time yeah you sign up for that
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
Yeah, you'd have to sign the dotted line.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
I remember one time I was in the villa, and we had no idea. It's called the galley, where all the TV screens are for all the hundreds of cameras in the villa. And one day, do you remember walking past, and there was a secret door open, and we could see in the galley. And honestly, you could see everything everywhere, all like this. And they saw me looking in, and they went, and they shut the door.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
I was like, oh my God. And they're literally living in the middle of the villa.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
How much did it cost her? It was free. Big fat zero.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
Well, no. What about when you nearly kissed Christina? No.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
Oh, I'm so different.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
I've matured so much.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
we didn't yeah to be quite honest it was I wouldn't say mistake but it was unexpected yeah it wasn't a mistake it was it was it was not planned yeah it wasn't planned yeah but I just knew because before I fell pregnant with Reggie I was pregnant before but it was an ectopic pregnancy so I just knew that you know there was never any option I was going to have the baby yeah so I you know I don't really know what you want to say on it
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
The first pregnancy? No, this one.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
Yeah, exactly. Yeah. It was going on for about a week, but I had to have the fetus removed at nine weeks. But honestly, that's fine now. I'm absolutely fine about that. You know, everything happens for a reason. But I'm just so lucky that you can still have babies after. You know, Reggie's perfect and healthy and happy. So, and the pregnancy, I love being pregnant. So it's all perfect.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
this is the type of woman that other women are just so i look like a beach whale you look like a goddess beautiful so i felt beautiful honestly yeah i loved it i loved it i'd always get my bump out like i loved it i was so empowered That's incredible for you.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
Yeah. Yeah, I mean, truth be told, we were quite early into our relationship still, so we were a bit skeptical what we were going to do with the baby. It was like, you know, were we going to keep it or not? We weren't sure about us at the time as well. We were going through a bit of a rough patch. But then when we finally decided to say, yeah, we're going to keep this baby,
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
To then find out that this was happening, yeah, it was horrible.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
But I remember at the time as well, the pain I was in, it was so painful. And I was just back in paracetamol. I was just like, no, it's fine, it's whatever. But to the point where it just got excruciating. I collapsed in the supermarket. You had to carry me home, because at the time we lived in a flat, it's like a walk distance.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
You had to carry me home, and then you're like, right, we need to call the ambulance. And I was like, no, no, no, I hate that kind of thing. I was like, I'm not dragging attention, I don't need an ambulance. Just give me some more paracetamol, I'm fine. And then eventually I called 111 and they were like, no, we're sending out an ambulance to you. And it all happened so quick, wasn't it?
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
I'm lucky we did it in time because it could have led to... Yeah, they said if I left it a day or two more, it could have been fatal.
The Unplanned Podcast with Matt & Abby
Emily Miller & Cam Holmes on life after Too Hot to Handle, getting married, and UK vs. USA
It was growing so big in my fallopian tube that it would have burst.