Emma Chamberlain

Aloof meaning not friendly or forthcoming, cool and distant.

Now that goes against my love romance dating philosophy.

I'm all about wearing your heart on your sleeve, to be honest.

I'm all about that.

Because even though...

That's something that's challenging for me.

I think dating and romance would be so much easier if we all just wore our heart on our sleeve.

I mean, Captain Obvious over here, me, but don't you think like if we all just were completely honest, put it all out on the table at any given moment, how helpful would that be?

Immensely helpful.

How often in love and romance do we read between the lines, drive ourselves nuts trying to figure out what the other person is thinking?

How often do people that we date drive themselves up a wall trying to figure out what we're thinking?

What a relief it would be if we all just wore our heart on our sleeve.

I don't like the idea of being aloof in love, especially in a long-term committed relationship.

Absolutely not.

Being cool and distant sounds like a shitty relationship.

Sounds like a terrible vibe.

If I'm in a relationship, I want to be cuddled vibes.

I want to be complimented vibes.

I want a little bit of simp vibes, not like full-on simp vibes where it's like, ooh, we need to talk about something other than how awesome you think I am.

You know, like that, not that that's really ever happened to me.