Emma Grede

God forbid, if anything ever happened to me, I always think like, I want my kids and my husband to feel like they understand what is required, that they are part of what has built this and that it doesn't live and fall with me.

I always try to have a level of honesty about the things that I am not doing.

Because when you work as much as you do and you have all of those kids, like something gives.

And I talk about trade-offs all the time.

Do you have trade-offs?

Are there things that you are just not doing that other mums might be like, I do that all the time.

What are you not doing?

but you still got to be open to taking the help.

But you got, and admitting that you need it.

Admitting that you need it is a huge, huge thing.

Yes.

And let me tell you who else you need to help you.

You need your husband to help you, which takes me to my next subject, which is the whole marriage and the business and the partnership because you work with your husband.

And one of the things that I wanted to ask you is that for women that have fought so hard to become their own person and to have their independence, what does it look like trying to actually build alongside somebody?

That's always what I feel like when there are...

tough relationships, when there are infidelities, when you feel like somebody has played in your face to use your words, it's not just a mistrust of the other side.

It's a mistrust of yourself.

Like you are like, I didn't see that.

I didn't understand that.

I allowed that to happen to me.