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Emmy Moore

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
3042 total appearances

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Watch Your Circle! (Discerning friendships) | SavedNotSoftPodcast

So I think what people fail to realize about relationships and friendships is that we hear this all the time is like, you are who you hang out with. So whoever you hang out with and whoever you're spending time with, whether if it's good or bad, there is a part of you that has the ability and has the temptation of being

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Watch Your Circle! (Discerning friendships) | SavedNotSoftPodcast

So I think what people fail to realize about relationships and friendships is that we hear this all the time is like, you are who you hang out with. So whoever you hang out with and whoever you're spending time with, whether if it's good or bad, there is a part of you that has the ability and has the temptation of being

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Watch Your Circle! (Discerning friendships) | SavedNotSoftPodcast

accumulating and developing the same attributes that they have because of the deep connections that you have, right? And so, Sorry, I had to itch my nose real quick.

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Watch Your Circle! (Discerning friendships) | SavedNotSoftPodcast

accumulating and developing the same attributes that they have because of the deep connections that you have, right? And so, Sorry, I had to itch my nose real quick.

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Watch Your Circle! (Discerning friendships) | SavedNotSoftPodcast

So one of the things that I could think of on the top of my head is if you're a person on fire for God and one of the people, which is your friends, is easily tempered and angry and acts in emotion all the time and doesn't know how to control their emotions and it's throwing you into a lot of despair, you get up and go, baby girl.

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Watch Your Circle! (Discerning friendships) | SavedNotSoftPodcast

So one of the things that I could think of on the top of my head is if you're a person on fire for God and one of the people, which is your friends, is easily tempered and angry and acts in emotion all the time and doesn't know how to control their emotions and it's throwing you into a lot of despair, you get up and go, baby girl.

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Watch Your Circle! (Discerning friendships) | SavedNotSoftPodcast

There's a time, I think it's going to get to a point to where you can only take it for so long. And it's like, how long are you going to take it? I think the biggest indicator of who you're needing to drop in relationships is ultimately people who are not willing to change and grow with you. Sometimes you just outgrow people and that's okay.

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Watch Your Circle! (Discerning friendships) | SavedNotSoftPodcast

There's a time, I think it's going to get to a point to where you can only take it for so long. And it's like, how long are you going to take it? I think the biggest indicator of who you're needing to drop in relationships is ultimately people who are not willing to change and grow with you. Sometimes you just outgrow people and that's okay.

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Watch Your Circle! (Discerning friendships) | SavedNotSoftPodcast

I wish actually our culture and our day and age normalized people just outgrowing one another without it being bad blood. There's been so many times where out of high school, going into my adult years, I just grew out of people. And it was just because we were going through different seasons.

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Watch Your Circle! (Discerning friendships) | SavedNotSoftPodcast

I wish actually our culture and our day and age normalized people just outgrowing one another without it being bad blood. There's been so many times where out of high school, going into my adult years, I just grew out of people. And it was just because we were going through different seasons.

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Watch Your Circle! (Discerning friendships) | SavedNotSoftPodcast

And it wasn't because I necessarily had animosity or anger towards that person, or let alone that they necessarily did anything bad. We were just on two different sets of life and they were no longer equal with one another. They were completely imbalanced. And I think sometimes we need to normalize it. It's okay to just drift apart because you go down two different roads of life. Like,

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Watch Your Circle! (Discerning friendships) | SavedNotSoftPodcast

And it wasn't because I necessarily had animosity or anger towards that person, or let alone that they necessarily did anything bad. We were just on two different sets of life and they were no longer equal with one another. They were completely imbalanced. And I think sometimes we need to normalize it. It's okay to just drift apart because you go down two different roads of life. Like,

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Watch Your Circle! (Discerning friendships) | SavedNotSoftPodcast

I think one thing that now sets me apart from my age is like, there's an unrelatability that I now experience with friends because I'm about to get married and none of my friends are married. So it's, it's also one of those things of like, it doesn't mean stop being, you know,

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Watch Your Circle! (Discerning friendships) | SavedNotSoftPodcast

I think one thing that now sets me apart from my age is like, there's an unrelatability that I now experience with friends because I'm about to get married and none of my friends are married. So it's, it's also one of those things of like, it doesn't mean stop being, you know,

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Watch Your Circle! (Discerning friendships) | SavedNotSoftPodcast

It doesn't mean to stop being friends with people who aren't on the same season as you, but it's being intentional of how your friends respond during the seasons that you're going through. Are they still sharpening you? Are they still encouraging you? Are they still pushing you through the things of God?

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Watch Your Circle! (Discerning friendships) | SavedNotSoftPodcast

It doesn't mean to stop being friends with people who aren't on the same season as you, but it's being intentional of how your friends respond during the seasons that you're going through. Are they still sharpening you? Are they still encouraging you? Are they still pushing you through the things of God?

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Watch Your Circle! (Discerning friendships) | SavedNotSoftPodcast

Or are they trying to hold you back to where they find you comfortable and where they want you? Because sometimes you will be growing in the things of God and other people will try to drag you down where they're at just so they don't feel alone. And that's when you need to run, baby girl.

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Watch Your Circle! (Discerning friendships) | SavedNotSoftPodcast

Or are they trying to hold you back to where they find you comfortable and where they want you? Because sometimes you will be growing in the things of God and other people will try to drag you down where they're at just so they don't feel alone. And that's when you need to run, baby girl.

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Watch Your Circle! (Discerning friendships) | SavedNotSoftPodcast

If you're not equally yoked with somebody and the person who's over here is trying to drag you down just so they could be empathized with, you got to get up and go and find another oxen, babe. Because you're not going to be equally sharpened by that person because that person is just wanting to be sharpened for their sake and not for the sake of you.

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Watch Your Circle! (Discerning friendships) | SavedNotSoftPodcast

If you're not equally yoked with somebody and the person who's over here is trying to drag you down just so they could be empathized with, you got to get up and go and find another oxen, babe. Because you're not going to be equally sharpened by that person because that person is just wanting to be sharpened for their sake and not for the sake of you.