Emy Moore

Like I'm not afraid of your brokenness.

And I feel like that's what's causing a lot of hedges between relationships is people afraid of people's brokenness.

And I knew that whatever you had, I have the endurance to help you.

And I think the problem with that at times is, especially during the dating stage, is women often think if I'm dating a man, he has to be husband material out the gate.

But he's not a husband yet.

So he can't be husband material.

He could only be boyfriend material.

He becomes husband material through your help.

Mm-hmm.

Because him who finds a wife, finds a good thing and obtains favor, that favor is your husband material.

Mm-hmm.

That comes from the help of the wife.

Mm-hmm.

And you can't be husband material until you're a husband.

So when you're dating as boyfriend and girlfriend, your partner can only give at the title they're at.

And I think it was really great for us to exercise exactly what that looks like for us and being very...

intentional with one another, sharing our truths and not being afraid of each other's darkness and I guess brokenness.

And I think that created a greater empathy and a greater compassion for one another.

And it prompted in me like, oh, I want to serve you in this, you know?

And I actually, not only does this not scare me, but I'm more aware of what's actually happening.