Eric

uh state of being with your life because when the come time time comes that you inherit this money i don't want you to be in this mode of like survival because then that money is going to go like that you're going to sell that farm and it's not going to be the blessing you want it to be so spend these next 10 years getting yourself in order like ken coleman just told you and i think that that money and that farm will end up being a great blessing to you

Yeah, how much margin did you have in your budget? When you're paying off debt, how much is extra going towards the debt?

Yeah, how much margin did you have in your budget? When you're paying off debt, how much is extra going towards the debt?

Yeah, how much margin did you have in your budget? When you're paying off debt, how much is extra going towards the debt?

Yeah, but how did you get ahead on the other debts that you paid off?

Yeah, but how did you get ahead on the other debts that you paid off?

Yeah, but how did you get ahead on the other debts that you paid off?

Or even the car detail. I feel like you've got a couple of skills and a couple of businesses that are just sitting in your pocket. You said that you detail cars. You said that you did the FPU, or I'm sorry, the coaching. I'm like, put this stuff to use. You got to go out and make it talk.

Or even the car detail. I feel like you've got a couple of skills and a couple of businesses that are just sitting in your pocket. You said that you detail cars. You said that you did the FPU, or I'm sorry, the coaching. I'm like, put this stuff to use. You got to go out and make it talk.

Or even the car detail. I feel like you've got a couple of skills and a couple of businesses that are just sitting in your pocket. You said that you detail cars. You said that you did the FPU, or I'm sorry, the coaching. I'm like, put this stuff to use. You got to go out and make it talk.

All right. Today's question comes from Randy in Delaware. He says, I've been seeing a lady for over a year and she has borrowed over $1,700 from me that she has not paid back. Randy! I am serious about this lady, but it bothers me that she has not fulfilled her promise to pay back my $1,700 after nine months. How do I approach her about this concern? Randy. Listen. Oh, man. Randy.

All right. Today's question comes from Randy in Delaware. He says, I've been seeing a lady for over a year and she has borrowed over $1,700 from me that she has not paid back. Randy! I am serious about this lady, but it bothers me that she has not fulfilled her promise to pay back my $1,700 after nine months. How do I approach her about this concern? Randy. Listen. Oh, man. Randy.

All right. Today's question comes from Randy in Delaware. He says, I've been seeing a lady for over a year and she has borrowed over $1,700 from me that she has not paid back. Randy! I am serious about this lady, but it bothers me that she has not fulfilled her promise to pay back my $1,700 after nine months. How do I approach her about this concern? Randy. Listen. Oh, man. Randy.

Sometimes I read these questions ahead of time and sometimes I don't because I just want to feel the impact in the moment. What are you feeling right now? I'm feeling impacted. Yeah, how? Well, it's two parts to this, Randy. There's two parts to this. A. You lent her the money. And whenever you loan money, there's always a risk, right? There's a risk that the person's not gonna repay it.

Sometimes I read these questions ahead of time and sometimes I don't because I just want to feel the impact in the moment. What are you feeling right now? I'm feeling impacted. Yeah, how? Well, it's two parts to this, Randy. There's two parts to this. A. You lent her the money. And whenever you loan money, there's always a risk, right? There's a risk that the person's not gonna repay it.

Sometimes I read these questions ahead of time and sometimes I don't because I just want to feel the impact in the moment. What are you feeling right now? I'm feeling impacted. Yeah, how? Well, it's two parts to this, Randy. There's two parts to this. A. You lent her the money. And whenever you loan money, there's always a risk, right? There's a risk that the person's not gonna repay it.

That's the biggest risk. And then the secondary risk is that because they don't repay it, or even if they do, it will affect the relationship in some adverse way, right? Those are the two biggies of why we say don't loan money. And you hit the nail on the head on both of them. Number one, she's kind of being a scrub and not paying the money back.

That's the biggest risk. And then the secondary risk is that because they don't repay it, or even if they do, it will affect the relationship in some adverse way, right? Those are the two biggies of why we say don't loan money. And you hit the nail on the head on both of them. Number one, she's kind of being a scrub and not paying the money back.

That's the biggest risk. And then the secondary risk is that because they don't repay it, or even if they do, it will affect the relationship in some adverse way, right? Those are the two biggies of why we say don't loan money. And you hit the nail on the head on both of them. Number one, she's kind of being a scrub and not paying the money back.

And how are you supposed to feel good about this relationship? Because now it has the ability to create like a little bit of bitterness. You take her out on it. Randy takes let's call her, you know, Sheila. Randy takes Sheila out on a date. Let's call her Sally. Randy takes Sally out on a date. He's not going to feel good about picking up her steak dinner.