Erica Franz-Fey

So it goes twofold here.

So if you're expecting to marry someone that I was blessed with, like a Charlie, you have to be the type of woman that will attract a Charlie.

Are you going to church?

Are you going to Bible study?

Did you tell your pastor that you are ready for the Lord to bring into your life the man that you've been praying for?

You yourself need to be prepared for that man.

And only you will know how to do that.

Does that mean staying out and going out with the girls?

I'm not saying you sit on your couch and all of a sudden he's going to knock on your door and be like, honey, let's rendezvous.

Like, that's not how it happens.

It's not.

Granted, my situation was a little different.

I wouldn't do it.

You went to a job interview.

Literally.

So this is how good the Lord is.

He knew that because I was not dating in New York City.

He knew that in order for me to know that that was my man, he had to blanket Charlie as a job interview.

Because if that went in, no joke, if he came to me and said, hey, let's go on a date to Bill's Burgers, I'd be like, I am so sorry.

Thank you, but no, we're not doing this.