Evaristo Salas Jr.

And we understood, I mean, as a Dutch citizen, they're kind of different in mentality than Americans because as Americans we have kind of a, I would say I have more kind of like a fantasy view of things or we're easier, they're more like, okay, you know, we kind of have more dreamers, I guess, you know.

And the Dutch are really direct.

They're straightforward.

There's no, like, if there's something wrong, they're going to tell you straight out.

I don't know if that's just a European thing or if it's a Dutch thing, but that's how she was.

And for me, it was like, when we looked at this, she took a really logical look at it.

She was like, you have this much time left.

If things don't change with it, you know what I mean?

We're going to have to go through this and go through that.

So we kind of went into it kind of knowing the obstacles that we're going to have to face.

Her living in the Netherlands meant me living here.

I'm hoping that I get out soon, but there's no, that's not written in stone.

It may not happen.

And she may have to be in a long-distance relationship.

All the things that come with being far away from each other.

Not to mention her being a single mother or raising a son.

My part, I'm going to play in that.

So all these things, we spoke about it.

And like I said, she was real logical.

She took at it, looked at it, and kind of understood from the get-go that it was going to be very hard.