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I'm shocked, but I'm not surprised.

Why didn't it happen to me? Would it have happened to me if I had stayed? What would have happened?

Why didn't it happen to me? Would it have happened to me if I had stayed? What would have happened?

When I got the phone call that he had been arrested for this crime... I believe my first words were, I'm shocked, but I'm not surprised.

When I got the phone call that he had been arrested for this crime... I believe my first words were, I'm shocked, but I'm not surprised.

I met him for the first time when I began waiting tables, cocktail waitressing actually. He was sort of the house DJ. He was very shy. Everyone knew who he was because he had made a good name for himself in our little small town.

I met him for the first time when I began waiting tables, cocktail waitressing actually. He was sort of the house DJ. He was very shy. Everyone knew who he was because he had made a good name for himself in our little small town.

When we first started dating, it was fun. It was exciting. It was dangerous. He was married. He was the cool DJ. After we kind of had settled into our relationship, he became very jealous. He became very possessive.

When we first started dating, it was fun. It was exciting. It was dangerous. He was married. He was the cool DJ. After we kind of had settled into our relationship, he became very jealous. He became very possessive.

Would just quietly say, you're worthless. Those red flags started to come up more often. The insults, the put downs, the controlling behavior.

Would just quietly say, you're worthless. Those red flags started to come up more often. The insults, the put downs, the controlling behavior.

He caught me smoking and sort of drug me back inside from outside, reading me the riot act, saying, since you can't sort of abide by the rules, you're going to clean the kitchen floor. I felt horrible. I felt demeaned. I felt scared.

He caught me smoking and sort of drug me back inside from outside, reading me the riot act, saying, since you can't sort of abide by the rules, you're going to clean the kitchen floor. I felt horrible. I felt demeaned. I felt scared.

I had worn sandals with socks out to dinner, and that was something that he totally hated. And he sent me to the car to sit in the car while everyone else had dinner. I started thinking about how I was going to exit the relationship at that point.

I had worn sandals with socks out to dinner, and that was something that he totally hated. And he sent me to the car to sit in the car while everyone else had dinner. I started thinking about how I was going to exit the relationship at that point.

So then my mind went to, why didn't it happen to me? Would it have happened to me if I had stayed? I truly believe that his relationships with women were not healthy.

So then my mind went to, why didn't it happen to me? Would it have happened to me if I had stayed? I truly believe that his relationships with women were not healthy.

It's been such a long time. I mean, a lot of people have worked hard on this. I don't doubt anything they did, but to find out this is how we're gonna find the person who did this, it's just amazing. We thank you.

It's been such a long time. I mean, a lot of people have worked hard on this. I don't doubt anything they did, but to find out this is how we're gonna find the person who did this, it's just amazing. We thank you.

They sent us some DNA from a reference sample.