Fernando De Leon

So please go out there and go build a piece of real estate or go do something.

But go get back up and do it.

And she was doing it a little bit to, like, you know, protect her own self from me being, you know, around the house too much.

But it was interesting that she knew me, you know, and was willing.

Like, she actually believed in me, but she also was pushing me harder than I was pushing myself, which didn't happen a lot.

But in a moment of vulnerability when I was down and like psychologically I was vulnerable, she was like, no, we're doing this.

Get back up.

And she was like, you know, in your corner in a boxing match and you're kind of getting, you know, punched around.

And she's like, no, get back in there and go fight.

And so I do think that in a relationship you have to have a person that sees you even in your most vulnerable state and compels you to keep going.

And we had only been dating for a couple of years before we got married.

And so, yeah, she did kind of know my essence quickly.

I don't know.

Yeah, that's massive.

I mean, I think that's a big chunk of it.

I think, you know, there's – in my case in particular, my wife really was able to interact with my family too, and that was super important for me because they were so foundational as a part of my life.

And so that was an important thing, and she took it on as part of her identity, and that was, you know, super important to me.

So, yeah, I mean, I think –

The supportive element has to be there.

You cannot both move forward without a supportive element.