FKA Twigs
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It feels even further than for most people.
I think my mom did put me under pressure when I was a kid, but also I thrive under pressure.
So it's kind of a double-edged sword, I guess.
I could achieve things and she encouraged me to do those things.
But I didn't ever feel like I was doing something I didn't want to do.
I always felt like I wanted to, but I think sometimes it was difficult.
And as a child, there are certain complexities that you don't understand why it's difficult.
But obviously now I'm older, you know, I grew up in, I've spoken about this so many times at this point, but I grew up in a very white area.
I was the only, there was one other mixed race girl that I ever knew in my area.
Um, and then there was one mixed race boy who was like my English teacher's son that I knew of, but otherwise like that, that was really it in terms of, I guess, like kids.
Um, so now I know I, that I was feeling it was difficult because of other, I guess, like
social and like economical reasons but as a child you don't understand you know you're just like why is this different for me yeah controversially I do believe in encouraging children to do a lot of clubs and stay really active and be competitive and follow your dreams and you know be competitive with yourself more than anyone else you know I know that
Like there's different ways of parenting, but at least on me, it worked to be given a very focused drive and goal.
Maybe, you know, that's just my personality maybe.
Yeah, making a child feel like they matter.
Yeah, it's the best thing.