Francesca Amber

And Stephen Bartlett said, is that not just lying to yourself?

And she was like, yeah.

Sorry, I don't know the lady's name, but she was like, yeah, it is lying to yourself.

In the beginning, if you think about it, any manifestation that we are bringing into our lives is essentially a lie, right?

So when I was pregnant with my first child and I would visualize and tell myself, this is my daughter.

This is a girl.

I'm having a healthy baby girl.

This is the only reality for me.

That was a lie.

I didn't know if she was going to be a girl.

I didn't know that she was going to be, you know, a healthy baby girl.

I didn't know any of those things.

But it was a lie that I told myself until it became a truth in my reality.

When I was manifesting a husband and I had this picture of this man on my vision board and I bought myself, this is going to actually sound very fucking delusional.

I bought myself the engagement ring that I wanted to be given.

And actually my engagement ring was exactly the same.

And I used to wear this engagement ring because I wanted the feeling of being out in public, being in a club, being in a bar and looking like I was taken.

Was it a lie?

Yeah, I guess it kind of was a lie.

But that was what I needed to do.