Francesca Amber

I didn't know if she was going to be a girl.

I didn't know that she was going to be, you know, a healthy baby girl.

I didn't know any of those things.

But it was a lie that I told myself until it became a truth in my reality.

When I was manifesting a husband and I had this picture of this man on my vision board and I bought myself, this is going to actually sound very fucking delusional.

I bought myself the engagement ring that I wanted to be given.

And actually my engagement ring was exactly the same.

And I used to wear this engagement ring because I wanted the feeling of being out in public, being in a club, being in a bar and looking like I was taken.

Was it a lie?

Yeah, I guess it kind of was a lie.

But that was what I needed to do.

To convince my brain and to convince myself, my future husband is not so future.

This bitch is right here and he's in my life and he's given me this ring.

It was a lie to myself.

But what we tell ourselves, especially repeatedly, become our lived reality, become our lived experience.

The confirmation bias in our brain will work to make anything we tell it true.

right?

So if we tell it all the time, like, oh my God, I'm so stupid.

I'm so dumb.

I'm so clumsy.