Francesca Amber

But being like, yeah,

something fucking amazing is going to happen to me today.

I remember when we were doing in the book club about like romanticizing your life and it was Christmas and I was going for a weekend in London and I was like romanticizing the fuck out of my life.

And I was like, today is like a Richard Curtis movie.

It's going to be like a rom-com.

It's going to be incredible.

And I went on to have one of the most exciting fun days ever.

I still remember it now.

I may have had sex with a waiter from a restaurant, okay?

That's all I'm going to say, but it was wild.

It was very out of the ordinary and it definitely works, so try it.

Tip number, are we on five?

I'm not too sure, is buy one thing your future self would have, not the whole wardrobe, just the lipstick, the candle, the coffee.

Your nervous system doesn't need the full picture to believe.

It just needs a sample.

Give it proof.

Let it remember who you are and reality will rearrange around that.

I'm a big fan of buying a token item.

I think it is an incredibly powerful practice and I've used it many, many times.

And in fact, I have a token item on right now.