Francesca
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I'm getting humbled slowly, but surely. I think that's a good perspective on it that I need it. And it's a good thing.
You don't have real opinions.
You don't have real opinions.
You don't have real opinions.
Yeah. No, that's the lesson I'm starting to learn. And I think I've taken a much more people-pleasing route just from my childhood and the way my sibling was. Yeah. The room that was left for me to be in was to be accommodating, easygoing, don't make a fuss, don't make things harder on anybody. So I definitely have an easygoing side to me that has led into me wanting to be very people-pleasing.
Yeah. No, that's the lesson I'm starting to learn. And I think I've taken a much more people-pleasing route just from my childhood and the way my sibling was. Yeah. The room that was left for me to be in was to be accommodating, easygoing, don't make a fuss, don't make things harder on anybody. So I definitely have an easygoing side to me that has led into me wanting to be very people-pleasing.
Yeah. No, that's the lesson I'm starting to learn. And I think I've taken a much more people-pleasing route just from my childhood and the way my sibling was. Yeah. The room that was left for me to be in was to be accommodating, easygoing, don't make a fuss, don't make things harder on anybody. So I definitely have an easygoing side to me that has led into me wanting to be very people-pleasing.
And as I've grown up, I'm like, I simply can't. I can't. Not everyone's going to like me, especially as I develop strong opinions about things in life. I'm going to see that a lot of people don't like that.
And as I've grown up, I'm like, I simply can't. I can't. Not everyone's going to like me, especially as I develop strong opinions about things in life. I'm going to see that a lot of people don't like that.
And as I've grown up, I'm like, I simply can't. I can't. Not everyone's going to like me, especially as I develop strong opinions about things in life. I'm going to see that a lot of people don't like that.
I do. I'm just trying not to anymore because I'm learning that there's nothing I can do to control it.
I do. I'm just trying not to anymore because I'm learning that there's nothing I can do to control it.
I do. I'm just trying not to anymore because I'm learning that there's nothing I can do to control it.
No, no. And I think my friends actually critique me on that where they're like, why you, you get so like in your head about them and you change the way you are around us. If they're bothering you, if they're like, mad at you or something, like you're gone. You're checked out for the night. Like you're not available anymore. So I definitely take it seriously.
No, no. And I think my friends actually critique me on that where they're like, why you, you get so like in your head about them and you change the way you are around us. If they're bothering you, if they're like, mad at you or something, like you're gone. You're checked out for the night. Like you're not available anymore. So I definitely take it seriously.
No, no. And I think my friends actually critique me on that where they're like, why you, you get so like in your head about them and you change the way you are around us. If they're bothering you, if they're like, mad at you or something, like you're gone. You're checked out for the night. Like you're not available anymore. So I definitely take it seriously.
Like when I was at that wedding and he was upset with me, I sat and like, I had a lump in my throat the whole time. Like I had nothing to say to anybody. I was super upset.
Like when I was at that wedding and he was upset with me, I sat and like, I had a lump in my throat the whole time. Like I had nothing to say to anybody. I was super upset.
Like when I was at that wedding and he was upset with me, I sat and like, I had a lump in my throat the whole time. Like I had nothing to say to anybody. I was super upset.
So in this moment right now?