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Francesca

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
460 total appearances

Appearances Over Time

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The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

And it's like, do I just let it go without us ever speaking again? Probably. And I'm okay with that. I've accepted that. But if there are things that I contributed to this and that he genuinely believes that I have abandoned him after he opened up to me about things that were upsetting him, then I think it's worth a letter or a voice note.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

And it's like, do I just let it go without us ever speaking again? Probably. And I'm okay with that. I've accepted that. But if there are things that I contributed to this and that he genuinely believes that I have abandoned him after he opened up to me about things that were upsetting him, then I think it's worth a letter or a voice note.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

And it's like, do I just let it go without us ever speaking again? Probably. And I'm okay with that. I've accepted that. But if there are things that I contributed to this and that he genuinely believes that I have abandoned him after he opened up to me about things that were upsetting him, then I think it's worth a letter or a voice note.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

Just... really from an emotional and moral standpoint, like it is not my character for me with anybody in my life, any ex in my life to just like end on such a hostile note and never speak again. Like you were a big part of my life for a while. I still want to say that all good. We're not each other's person. Sorry for the pain that caused figuring it out, but

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

Just... really from an emotional and moral standpoint, like it is not my character for me with anybody in my life, any ex in my life to just like end on such a hostile note and never speak again. Like you were a big part of my life for a while. I still want to say that all good. We're not each other's person. Sorry for the pain that caused figuring it out, but

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

Just... really from an emotional and moral standpoint, like it is not my character for me with anybody in my life, any ex in my life to just like end on such a hostile note and never speak again. Like you were a big part of my life for a while. I still want to say that all good. We're not each other's person. Sorry for the pain that caused figuring it out, but

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

I definitely think he's going through a hard time.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

I definitely think he's going through a hard time.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

I definitely think he's going through a hard time.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

I'm scared of what he's going to say. Cause when we broke up in October and, He said some pretty hurtful things to me, very niche. He would pick on a lot of things about the types of clothes I would wear, the color of jewelry I was wearing, like very strange, peculiar things to pick up that

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

I'm scared of what he's going to say. Cause when we broke up in October and, He said some pretty hurtful things to me, very niche. He would pick on a lot of things about the types of clothes I would wear, the color of jewelry I was wearing, like very strange, peculiar things to pick up that

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

I'm scared of what he's going to say. Cause when we broke up in October and, He said some pretty hurtful things to me, very niche. He would pick on a lot of things about the types of clothes I would wear, the color of jewelry I was wearing, like very strange, peculiar things to pick up that

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

What do you mean by that? A shorter leash?

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

What do you mean by that? A shorter leash?

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

What do you mean by that? A shorter leash?

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

I think that's a good takeaway is that you're right. They're not going to change much, no matter how much they care about me or love the idea of being with me. They're not going to change. That's been proven true to me time and time again. And Maybe I need to have a lot more sensitivity. Lifestyle could change.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

I think that's a good takeaway is that you're right. They're not going to change much, no matter how much they care about me or love the idea of being with me. They're not going to change. That's been proven true to me time and time again. And Maybe I need to have a lot more sensitivity. Lifestyle could change.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

I think that's a good takeaway is that you're right. They're not going to change much, no matter how much they care about me or love the idea of being with me. They're not going to change. That's been proven true to me time and time again. And Maybe I need to have a lot more sensitivity. Lifestyle could change.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

Yeah, that's I need to be a lot more sensitive to red flags up front because we we had some early squabbles that he reacted very intensely to. And I felt like that was super over the top and it gave me a bad feeling inside. But again, I'm like, it's hard for me to find men that I feel like I'm very physically and physically. lifestyle wise compatible with.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

Yeah, that's I need to be a lot more sensitive to red flags up front because we we had some early squabbles that he reacted very intensely to. And I felt like that was super over the top and it gave me a bad feeling inside. But again, I'm like, it's hard for me to find men that I feel like I'm very physically and physically. lifestyle wise compatible with.