Frank the Tank

It was a lot of trauma.

And I don't live near my parents.

They live in a different country.

I haven't visited home in the past 11 years from the time I moved away.

I still talk to them.

They visited me once, but I don't know.

Going back to visit for another event, it brings a lot of anxiety and, yeah, nervousness.

You get the difference?

Yes, yes, I understand.

Everything you said, except he doesn't drink, he's sober, and he doesn't hit people.

Okay.

Well, he did, but not like in public.

Oh, all the yelling happens in public.

Our home was...

Every day, however he was feeling, if he's feeling good, then we are acting normal.

But if he's stressed or tired, we used to act like we are almost non-existent so that he doesn't notice something and yell at us or like, you know, scream at us.

Yeah, I've become a lot more aware of myself in all my 20s.

I've lived in America, came here.

And most of my life, all the good things also come from my parents, also from him.

How to be disciplined at work, be financially disciplined, and take care of people around you who matter most.