Freya India

So if you look at Tana Mongeau or some of these influencers, they are promiscuous, they're quite masculine, they're quite aggressive in their speech because people who talk assertively and in extreme ways will just suit the algorithm. You know, if you're like a reserved, timid young girl, you're not going to be the top influencer on Instagram.

So I think those traits get rewarded and then they're what girls are scrolling through all day, every day. And they're like, oh, my favorite influencer is really like,

So I think those traits get rewarded and then they're what girls are scrolling through all day, every day. And they're like, oh, my favorite influencer is really like,

So I think those traits get rewarded and then they're what girls are scrolling through all day, every day. And they're like, oh, my favorite influencer is really like,

vulgar and promiscuous and she's super assertive that's the path to success yeah and that's again that's the model of like the healed confident woman who's not held back by negative emotion or worry or jealousy or any of these things assertiveness is confused for self-assuredness or wholeness completeness fixedness well also promiscuity is like

vulgar and promiscuous and she's super assertive that's the path to success yeah and that's again that's the model of like the healed confident woman who's not held back by negative emotion or worry or jealousy or any of these things assertiveness is confused for self-assuredness or wholeness completeness fixedness well also promiscuity is like

vulgar and promiscuous and she's super assertive that's the path to success yeah and that's again that's the model of like the healed confident woman who's not held back by negative emotion or worry or jealousy or any of these things assertiveness is confused for self-assuredness or wholeness completeness fixedness well also promiscuity is like

Well, I often think now, if you're like a reserved young woman who's modest, you're now shamed. Maybe not explicitly, but implicitly, people will think there's something wrong with you because they'll be like, Oh, no, you are beautiful. You shouldn't be so shy about guys. You shouldn't worry about sex. It's fine. People will reassure her now.

Well, I often think now, if you're like a reserved young woman who's modest, you're now shamed. Maybe not explicitly, but implicitly, people will think there's something wrong with you because they'll be like, Oh, no, you are beautiful. You shouldn't be so shy about guys. You shouldn't worry about sex. It's fine. People will reassure her now.

Well, I often think now, if you're like a reserved young woman who's modest, you're now shamed. Maybe not explicitly, but implicitly, people will think there's something wrong with you because they'll be like, Oh, no, you are beautiful. You shouldn't be so shy about guys. You shouldn't worry about sex. It's fine. People will reassure her now.

as to like that look at her as if she has a problem that needs healing rather than she just is modest um and i think that's what tends to happen is you look at promiscuity becomes so popular and normalized and then we stigmatize the girls that aren't interested in that or aren't that way um

as to like that look at her as if she has a problem that needs healing rather than she just is modest um and i think that's what tends to happen is you look at promiscuity becomes so popular and normalized and then we stigmatize the girls that aren't interested in that or aren't that way um

as to like that look at her as if she has a problem that needs healing rather than she just is modest um and i think that's what tends to happen is you look at promiscuity becomes so popular and normalized and then we stigmatize the girls that aren't interested in that or aren't that way um

I think if you are a young woman now who holds back in that way, it's kind of like if you're introverted and people come up to you and say, what's wrong? You should speak more. And it's just like, sometimes it's just who you are. So I think... it's the incentives again.

I think if you are a young woman now who holds back in that way, it's kind of like if you're introverted and people come up to you and say, what's wrong? You should speak more. And it's just like, sometimes it's just who you are. So I think... it's the incentives again.

I think if you are a young woman now who holds back in that way, it's kind of like if you're introverted and people come up to you and say, what's wrong? You should speak more. And it's just like, sometimes it's just who you are. So I think... it's the incentives again.

You're almost punished socially if you're modest and shy and, and not super assertive and masculine because people think you've got your like healing work to do. You need to become more confident and like,

You're almost punished socially if you're modest and shy and, and not super assertive and masculine because people think you've got your like healing work to do. You need to become more confident and like,

You're almost punished socially if you're modest and shy and, and not super assertive and masculine because people think you've got your like healing work to do. You need to become more confident and like,

sexual and like get rid of all your reservations and like repression people think you're just like a repressed person rather than everybody should be tanner mojo whatever yeah like she's she's like released herself of all her kind of traumas and burden everybody is tanner at zero yes and you just need to try and get back there yeah is there a wistfulness for times of the past