Freya India

I mean, a lot of these young women define their lives by DSM diagnosis that were basically voted by rich white men.

No, the actual pharmaceutical labels.

So all of these industries have the influence of rich white men that they hate.

But because I draw different conclusions from them and because I have the cultural stuff in there about divorce and porn, all of these sort of conservative coded concerns, then the whole book has to be dangerous.

And so a lot of it, yeah, is young women warning each other.

Because divorce is now how women self-actualize.

And so I talk in the book actually about going from the normalization of divorce to the glamorization of divorce and then divorce being a means to self-fulfillment and self-expression.

Yeah.

And basically I think that

Women interpret that as me saying women should stay with the absolute worst husbands at all costs.

But really, I think that the normalization and glamorization of divorce hurts women as well, hurts wives, and it hurts children.

She's amazing.

That was a great episode.

Yeah, I think the way I view it is I think some, again, it's overthinking a natural instinct a lot of the time.

Like if you think about divorce, a child's parents splitting apart and not living in the same household with the child.

That's going to harm the child.

I don't really need data sets and research for that to seem true.

That feels true.

And you see it playing out with people who've had divorced parents where they carry that into relationships.

And that's what's interesting is progressives love attachment theory and they love talking about abandonment issues, but they never talk about what's causing those abandonment issues.