Gabriel Mizrahi

It wasn't an easy decision, and it's not something I've ever done before.

But I keep going back and forth feeling guilty because this decision has had ripple effects for my fiancé, including not getting invited to the wedding.

Are my reasons justified?

Do you think I should try to make amends?

Signed, something old, something new, something borrowed.

Now we're all blue because I can't imagine acting like this if I were in her shoes.

Agreed.

The only mitigating factor that I can think of is if our friend here did anything inadvertently that upset Stacey, I don't know, communicated poorly, gave the wrong impression, let things pile up in a way that cast other little comments in a weird light, whatever it was.

That's the only thing I can think of.

Even if she did, it does not warrant this response.

I am trying to get clear on this timeline.

She said that this kind of started two years ago.

So what changed in the last two years?

Was it getting engaged?

What was going on?

But also, was Stacey always this way?

Did she become this way more recently?

And if she did, why?

But who created those ripple effects?

I mean, I guess they both did.