Gabriel Mizrahi
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The thing is, these beliefs he holds about himself, and maybe some of them are true for him to some degree. Maybe he doesn't at this moment have a ton of useful skills. Maybe he isn't always the most ambitious.
But the belief that he's void of any talent, that he can't develop new skills, or that he's always going to be a certain kind of person, that he's always going to disappoint his daughter, whatever these feelings are, all of those thoughts must be informed by what his father did to him.
But the belief that he's void of any talent, that he can't develop new skills, or that he's always going to be a certain kind of person, that he's always going to disappoint his daughter, whatever these feelings are, all of those thoughts must be informed by what his father did to him.
But the belief that he's void of any talent, that he can't develop new skills, or that he's always going to be a certain kind of person, that he's always going to disappoint his daughter, whatever these feelings are, all of those thoughts must be informed by what his father did to him.
Right. So for his own sake and for his daughter's sake, I would love for him to find a way to work through all of this, of course, because these difficult feelings he has, his addiction, his pattern of damaging relationships, the sexual dysfunction, all of that. is a lot to deal with, but it is not by any means fixed. He can work on this stuff with the right resources.
Right. So for his own sake and for his daughter's sake, I would love for him to find a way to work through all of this, of course, because these difficult feelings he has, his addiction, his pattern of damaging relationships, the sexual dysfunction, all of that. is a lot to deal with, but it is not by any means fixed. He can work on this stuff with the right resources.
Right. So for his own sake and for his daughter's sake, I would love for him to find a way to work through all of this, of course, because these difficult feelings he has, his addiction, his pattern of damaging relationships, the sexual dysfunction, all of that. is a lot to deal with, but it is not by any means fixed. He can work on this stuff with the right resources.
But as it relates to this dilemma with his father specifically, these self-concepts are actually extremely relevant. My sense is that because he has such a low opinion of himself, he doesn't feel he can provide for his family the way he wants, not now or maybe not ever, which means that his father and the inheritance
But as it relates to this dilemma with his father specifically, these self-concepts are actually extremely relevant. My sense is that because he has such a low opinion of himself, he doesn't feel he can provide for his family the way he wants, not now or maybe not ever, which means that his father and the inheritance
But as it relates to this dilemma with his father specifically, these self-concepts are actually extremely relevant. My sense is that because he has such a low opinion of himself, he doesn't feel he can provide for his family the way he wants, not now or maybe not ever, which means that his father and the inheritance
really are his only hope, which makes the stakes of that relationship even higher, which makes this dilemma about whether to say something very intense. Does he bite the only hand that can feed him? Exactly. I also wonder if this conversation he wants to have with his dad if maybe that feels like his only hope for healing as well. I can't fix any of this trauma on my own. This is just how it is.
really are his only hope, which makes the stakes of that relationship even higher, which makes this dilemma about whether to say something very intense. Does he bite the only hand that can feed him? Exactly. I also wonder if this conversation he wants to have with his dad if maybe that feels like his only hope for healing as well. I can't fix any of this trauma on my own. This is just how it is.
really are his only hope, which makes the stakes of that relationship even higher, which makes this dilemma about whether to say something very intense. Does he bite the only hand that can feed him? Exactly. I also wonder if this conversation he wants to have with his dad if maybe that feels like his only hope for healing as well. I can't fix any of this trauma on my own. This is just how it is.
But if I just give my dad a piece of my mind, that'll fix all of this. That'll make me less angry, less bitter, more confident, more authentic, because I'll finally be writing this wrong. Now, as we've been saying that might in some world be true, owning your story, telling someone how you feel. Yes. Like we keep saying undeniably powerful, but
But if I just give my dad a piece of my mind, that'll fix all of this. That'll make me less angry, less bitter, more confident, more authentic, because I'll finally be writing this wrong. Now, as we've been saying that might in some world be true, owning your story, telling someone how you feel. Yes. Like we keep saying undeniably powerful, but
But if I just give my dad a piece of my mind, that'll fix all of this. That'll make me less angry, less bitter, more confident, more authentic, because I'll finally be writing this wrong. Now, as we've been saying that might in some world be true, owning your story, telling someone how you feel. Yes. Like we keep saying undeniably powerful, but
I strongly suspect that it will only be true up to a certain point because even in a world where his father did respond really well to this confrontation, it will only be one aspect of his healing. The real work is in sorting through all of these feelings on his own and mourning the childhood he had and taking back his power and hopefully creating a new narrative for himself.
I strongly suspect that it will only be true up to a certain point because even in a world where his father did respond really well to this confrontation, it will only be one aspect of his healing. The real work is in sorting through all of these feelings on his own and mourning the childhood he had and taking back his power and hopefully creating a new narrative for himself.
I strongly suspect that it will only be true up to a certain point because even in a world where his father did respond really well to this confrontation, it will only be one aspect of his healing. The real work is in sorting through all of these feelings on his own and mourning the childhood he had and taking back his power and hopefully creating a new narrative for himself.
So here too, I wonder if he might be pinning a lot of his hopes on the conversation with his dad. And maybe that's why it feels so urgent. And maybe that's why he's willing to risk literally hundreds of thousands of dollars to have this conversation. But if he saw that he could make progress in other ways on his own with other people, it's just a question.